In an extraordinary episode of sibling solidarity, sisters Claire and Lilyana Ziemba found themselves undergoing kidney stone surgeries within just a day of each other, resulting in both a shared trauma and an unexpected bond over their health challenges. The 20-year-old Claire, a student at Duke University, and her elder sister Lilyana, 23, who is in the physician associate programme at the same university, shared their experience with PEOPLE, shedding light on the surreal circumstances around their medical crises.
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For Claire, the ordeal began nearly a year prior when she noticed blood in her urine. However, because she did not experience pain, she faced a long and frustrating journey of consultations with various specialists who struggled to provide a diagnosis. Initial assessments suggested potential links to her menstrual cycle or even COVID-19, as multiple urologists and nephrologists dismissed the possibility of kidney stones, citing her youth as a factor against it.
After nearly twelve months of uncertainty, a CT scan in May finally revealed a 9 mm stone in her right kidney, alongside several smaller stones in her left. Claire underwent surgery for the stone in August, which, while initially successful, left her with post-operative complications that required further hospital visits. Following a night of distress, Claire was discharged the next day, only to have her sister Lilyana experience her own health crisis just hours later.

Lilyana’s long-standing battle with debilitating pain on her right side added to the drama of their situation. Though she had suffered similar symptoms for two years, previous assessments had failed to link her pain to kidney stones. However, on this particular evening, her condition escalated. After several hours of severe pain and vomiting, Lilyana found herself in the emergency room, where a CT scan revealed that she had a 14 mm stone blocking her ureter.

“Finding out I had a 14 mm stone that required emergency surgery just a day after my sister’s surgery was utterly surreal,” Lilyana recounted. Despite the seriousness of the medical situations they faced, the siblings managed to find humour in their predicament. Joking about being “connected” due to the mere coincidence of their concurrent surgeries, they took to TikTok to share their experiences, highlighting the bond that only sisters could understand.
Lilyana, who has dealt with recurring kidney stones since she was just 16, has not yet received a clear medical explanation for her condition, despite undergoing multiple tests. The sisters noted that there is currently no known genetic connection between their stones. Nonetheless, the shared experience provided a rare moment of understanding and empathy not just for each other, but also highlighted the frequent struggles that many young women encounter when seeking medical attention.
“I often felt invalidated when doctors said I was ‘too young’ to have kidney stones. It made me question my own experiences,” Claire reflected. Both sisters found that their journeys were clouded with uncertainty and misvalidation—a reality that many individuals face when their symptoms do not align with medical expectations.
Lilyana’s surgery ultimately brought relief, ending two years of intermittent pain. This unexpected outcome instilled a profound sense of gratitude in her as she prepares to enter her own medical career. She expressed hope that her experiences as a patient would provide her with a better understanding of future patients’ challenges, particularly in ensuring that unexplained symptoms are taken seriously by healthcare professionals.
Both Claire and Lilyana praised their medical teams for their thoroughness and for valuing their voices throughout this distressing experience. “Having each other there made the experience feel a little less daunting,” shared Lilyana. “We were the only two people who could truly grasp what the other was going through.”
Their story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of attentive and empathetic healthcare, especially for young women who may feel dismissed. The sisters are now advocates for greater awareness surrounding kidney stones among young people and the necessity for further research into their causes and preventive measures. Their experience epitomises the strength of familial bonds even in the most unexpected of circumstances, transforming a painful chapter into an empowering narrative of resilience and hope.
