Martha Stewart has recently revealed that she had not communicated with her ex-husband, Andrew “Andy” Stewart, for over two decades until he made contact following the release of her documentary, “Martha,” in 2024. The unexpected nature of Andy’s outreach highlighted the complexities of their past relationship, which included both personal and legal matters.
:max_bytes(150000):strip_icc():format(jpeg)/martha-andy-stewart-tout-1-101024-0a5557235a28424688c4f0ad7ccb2c59.jpg)

Martha and Andy first crossed paths during her time as a student at Barnard College in New York City. At the time, he was a law student at Yale, and their romance blossomed when they were introduced by a mutual connection—Andy’s sister, who was also Martha’s classmate. Their relationship progressed rapidly, leading to a young marriage and the birth of their daughter, Alexis, now 60 years old. The couple settled in Westport, Connecticut, where Martha began laying the foundations of her now extensive homemaking empire.
In her recently released documentary, Martha reflects on the trajectory of her relationship with Andy, shedding light on the infidelities that contributed to their eventual split in 1990. In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE magazine, she disclosed that while she received a message from him, it was strictly for legal purposes. “He reached out to remind me of divorce settlement statements, which I had never read,” Martha stated. “Who cared after two years of arguing about a settlement? I still haven’t read it. He’s a jerk,” she remarked, illustrating the lingering resentment from their tumultuous past.

In the aftermath of their divorce, it seems that the family dynamics have remained unchanged. Martha revealed that Alexis, her daughter, also maintains her distance from Andy, indicating that the split has left a broader impact on familial relationships. Nonetheless, Martha reminisced fondly about their early days, saying, “Oh, I was madly in love. Of course I have very fond memories. We were a very fine couple. Wherever we went, we were the couple.”
Currently, Martha holds a different perspective on marriage and relationships as she ages. “It’s less important to me to be married,” she explained. “The older you get, the less you really need a mate, I think. I wouldn’t want to be beleaguered with an older, ill person.” This candid reflection suggests a shift in her priorities as she navigates this new chapter of her life.
While she may not prioritise marriage, Martha remains open to the possibility of dating and forging new connections. She conveyed her openness to finding companionship, stating, “Been there, done that. I have lots of friends. I’m not a lonely person. I have a very, very full—oh, probably too full!—life. I go out on… I don’t know if you call them dates or not, but I go out.” Her vibrant social life is a testament to her resilience and adaptability, demonstrating that she continues to thrive independently.
In a world where perceptions of marriage and companionship are evolving, Martha Stewart’s reflections offer insight into how personal experiences shape one’s views on relationships over time. As she embraces new opportunities and navigates the complexities of human connections, her story serves as a reminder of the intricacies of love, loss, and moving forward.
For those interested in more about Martha Stewart and her reflections on the past, the latest issue of PEOPLE magazine, featuring her cover story, will be available in stores this Friday. Through her candid discourse, Martha Stewart not only shares her personal journey but also poses questions about love, commitment, and self-discovery in later life.
