Brandy and Monica Reflect on Overcoming Feud Post ‘The Boy Is Mine’
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R&B icons Monica and Brandy recently graced the cover of Essence magazine and opened up about their journey to mend their relationship following the release of their hit song ‘The Boy Is Mine’ in 1998. The duo, who are set to kick off a joint tour soon, shed light on the years-long feud that ensued after the success of their collaborative track.
In a candid interview, Brandy, 46, expressed her perspective on the significance of ‘The Boy Is Mine’: “I see it as so much bigger than just a hit record. At the time, it was two young women coming together, bringing our voices and our stories into one moment — and the world connected with it in a way we couldn’t have imagined.”

The ‘What About Us?’ singer continued by highlighting the themes of sisterhood and collaboration that the song represented, emphasizing how it resonated with audiences globally. She acknowledged the lasting impact of the track on R&B history and how it serves as a reminder of progress for women in the music industry.
Monica, 44, delved into the complexities of their past interactions, acknowledging that while there was initially more division than togetherness, they have since taken control of their narrative. She expressed a desire to redefine the legacy of ‘The Boy Is Mine’ for future generations, stressing the importance of unity and empowering messages in their music.
The discussion also touched on Ariana Grande’s 2024 rendition of ‘The Boy Is Mine’ and its remix featuring Monica and Brandy. Monica applauded the young listeners who discovered the original collaboration through Grande’s version, emphasizing the spontaneity and creativity that shaped their initial project.

Following its release, ‘The Boy Is Mine’ soared to the top of the Billboard Hot 100 chart, cementing its status as a timeless classic. However, tensions between Brandy and Monica led to a public altercation at the 1998 MTV Video Music Awards, sparking a rift that lasted for years. Despite the challenges, the pair reunited for a Verzuz battle in 2020, paving the way for their upcoming tour.
In a reflective moment, Monica shared her outlook on letting go of the past and focusing on the present and future. She underscored the positive strides they have made in rebuilding their connection and highlighted the divine timing of their renewed partnership.
Brandy and Monica’s joint tour, titled The Boy Is Mine Tour, is scheduled to commence on Thursday, Oct. 16 at the Heritage Bank Center in Cincinnati, with shows lined up across North America until December. The tour marks a significant milestone in their journey towards reconciliation and collaborative success.
As fans eagerly anticipate their upcoming performances, the Essence cover story provides a poignant glimpse into the evolution of Brandy and Monica’s relationship, showcasing resilience, growth, and a shared commitment to embracing their musical legacy together.
