In a surprising turn of events, former NFL player Ryan Fitzpatrick has shared his unexpected encounter with Hollywood star Tom Hanks at the recent wedding of pop sensation Taylor Swift and Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce. The lavish ceremony took place on July 3 at Madison Square Garden in New York City and attracted a plethora of celebrity guests.
Fitzpatrick, 43, attended the star-studded event with his wife, Liza, while Hanks was accompanied by his longtime partner, Rita Wilson. During a recent episode of his podcast, Fitz & Whit, which he co-hosts with fellow former athlete Andrew Whitworth, Fitzpatrick recounted the amusing yet slightly embarrassing moment that involved Hanks and his choice of headwear for the occasion.

Although Liza received praise from one outlet for her elegant appearance in a strapless emerald green gown, Ryan was less fortunate in the fashion department. The retired quarterback opted for a black suit, complemented by an emerald green tie and what he described as a “low-profile” top hat. It was this top hat that caught the attention of none other than Hanks, who made a pointed comment about Fitzpatrick’s fashion choice at the wedding.

Reflecting on the moment, Ryan recalled that he had been excited about the possibility of participating in an anniversary dance during the celebration. This traditional segment allows married couples to join the dance floor, gradually eliminating pairs based on the length of their marriages until only the longest-married couple remains. Fitzpatrick, who tied the knot in June 2006, thought he had a good chance given his 20 years of marriage, but he noted that the iconic couple, Hanks and Wilson, had them outmatched with their longer union.
The interaction escalated when Hanks seemingly approached Fitzpatrick, making eye contact as he walked over. Initially flattered, Fitzpatrick felt a wave of excitement believing the renowned actor recognised him. However, the encounter took an unexpected turn when Hanks delivered some comedic yet pointed feedback regarding the hat. “Just so you know, that’s a huge faux pas. You’re not supposed to wear a top hat at a wedding, that’s saved for the groom,” Hanks quipped before walking away.
To this day, Fitzpatrick remains uncertain whether Hanks was serious or merely joking. “It felt like 50% serious, 50% joke, and I’m not sure which was which,” Fitzpatrick confessed on his podcast. In a humorous twist, he mused on the idea that Hanks may not even know who he is, describing himself as “the guy that wore the top hat that was a huge faux pas at the wedding.”
Whitworth, who was privy to the exchange, remarked on how Fitzpatrick seemed “absolutely crushed” when he recounted the story, leading to a blend of sympathy and laughter among the podcast’s audience. Whitworth suggested that Hanks may have used sarcasm intentionally to keep Fitzpatrick guessing, adding an air of mystery to the encounter.
Despite the fashion faux pas commentary, Ryan maintained a positive outlook on the evening. “It wasn’t great, but you know what? It was a great night. We had a lot of fun,” he remarked, emphasising the celebratory atmosphere of the occasion.
Fitzpatrick later described Swift and Kelce’s wedding as “unbelievable,” with every detail appearing to be top-notch. The event featured a remarkable highlight when comedian Adam Sandler officiated the ceremony, a moment that Fitzpatrick found especially memorable. He recounted the beautiful ceremony and commented on the hours of dancing that followed, joking about recovering from the energetic celebration.
Ultimately, Ryan Fitzpatrick’s anecdote from the high-profile wedding serves as a reminder of the informal nature of celebrity interactions, where even a light-hearted critique from a film legend can stir up a mix of embarrassment and laughter.
