Susan Saint James, the acclaimed Emmy-winning actress renowned for her roles in popular television series such as *McMillan & Wife* and *Kate & Allie*, passed away on 26th October 2023 at the age of 80. The actress had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer shortly before her death, prompting an outpouring of tributes from her family and fans.
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In a heartfelt statement to PEOPLE, her family remembers her not only as a talented performer but also as a deeply compassionate individual, devoted to uplifting those around her. They described her as “generous with her time and energy, valuing them more than money.” Saint James was known for her ability to connect with people from all walks of life, making every individual she encountered feel like they were the centre of her attention.
The family shared a touching anecdote that illustrated her character. Just weeks after the tragic loss of her youngest son, Teddy, in a plane crash in November 2004, Saint James delivered a moving eulogy. She wrote notes to her surviving children and husband, offering them words of comfort during a time of profound grief. Even in her sorrow, she prioritised the emotions and wellbeing of her loved ones. Following the tragedy, she appeared on *Today* with Tim Russert to express gratitude for the immense support their family received.
Survived by her husband, Dick Ebersol, four children—Sunshine Lucas, Harmony Lucas, Charlie Ebersol, and Willie Ebersol—along with seven grandchildren, her sister Mary Mercedes Dewey, and her loyal service dog, Lola, Saint James leaves behind a legacy that extends far beyond her screen performances.
The actress made her mark in the entertainment industry with her television debut in the 1968 comedy *Where Angels Go, Trouble Follows*. However, it was her role in *The Name of the Game* that catapulted her to fame, earning her multiple Emmy nominations and a win in 1969. Her captivating presence on screen was further solidified in 1971 when she starred alongside Rock Hudson in *McMillan & Wife*, where she portrayed Sally McMillan. This role garnered her three additional Emmy nominations and established her as one of the defining faces of television during that era.
Saint James continued to work in film throughout the late 1970s and early 1980s, with notable appearances in movies such as *Outlaw Blues* and *Love at First Bite*. In 1984, she re-teamed with Jane Curtin for the CBS sitcom *Kate & Allie*, which followed the lives of two divorced women raising their children together. The show became a staple of American television, securing her two more Emmy nominations and lasting until 1989.
Not just confined to scripted television, Saint James also hosted *Saturday Night Live* on two occasions and collaborated with Bob Uecker to co-host WrestleMania 2 in 1986. It was during her first SNL appearance in 1981 that she met Ebersol, a television executive. Their whirlwind romance led to marriage just 42 days after their initial meeting, illustrating an instant connection that blossomed into a loving partnership.
As her children grew, Saint James gradually stepped back from acting to focus on family life. She famously expressed in 1993 that her decision to retire was largely driven by her desire for her children to be the centre of attention within the family. Though she was largely absent from the limelight during the latter part of the 1980s, she occasionally re-emerged in guest roles on shows like *The Drew Carey Show* and *Law & Order: Special Victims Unit*. Her contributions to the industry were recognised when she received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in 2008.
Saint James’s commitment to philanthropy was another significant aspect of her life. Her work extended to various charitable organisations, notably the Special Olympics, and she offered her support to the Telluride Foundation and Assistance Dogs of Hawaii. However, it was her personal experience of loss that propelled her into a dedicated role of assisting grieving parents, particularly after the tragic death of her son Teddy in 2004.
Over the years, Saint James formed meaningful connections with other families affected by similar tragedies, providing solace and guidance. One of her close friendships was with Lynn McDonnell, whose daughter was a victim of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting in 2012. This bond highlighted her enduring commitment to helping others navigate their grief.
In summary, Susan Saint James was not only a beloved television star but also a beacon of compassion and resilience. Her legacy, shaped by both her artistic achievements and her profound humanitarian efforts, will undoubtedly continue to inspire generations to come.