Charles Spencer, the 9th Earl Spencer and brother of the late Princess Diana, recently shared insights into his latest memoir, “Swan Song: Diana, My Sister,” during a conversation with CBS Mornings. Released just last week, the book reflects on the life and legacy of his sister while also shedding light on the relationship he shares with his nephews, Prince William and Prince Harry.
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In a candid interview with Gayle King, Spencer spoke about the delicate nature of family dynamics amidst public expectations. He disclosed that he informed both princes about the publication simultaneously, ensuring that they were aware of its existence just prior to its public release. Spencer emphasised his desire to maintain complete autonomy over the content of the book, choosing to keep family members uninvolved in its creation.
The Earl noted that particularly in the case of Prince Harry, he wished to avoid any suggestion that the young prince had a role in the memoir. Spencer responded to King’s curiosity regarding Harry and William’s reactions, confirming that he had spoken to both after the release of the book. “I think it’s natural that people so in the public eye are concerned how they will come across in the book,” he stated.
In an exclusive conversation with PEOPLE, Spencer mentioned that his nephews were understandably anxious about the book’s content, especially given the sensitive nature of their shared history. He assured them that there was nothing in it that could cause embarrassment. “Harry expressed concerns about any potential awkwardness,” Spencer recounted, adding that he had reassured both siblings that they were presented as “two little boys who had the most exceptional mother.”
The memoir encapsulates Spencer’s personal reflections on Diana, whom he describes as an extraordinary mother. He expressed regret over his sisters, Lady Sarah and Lady Jane, feeling hurt about not being informed prior to publication, admitting, “I think they were hurt that I hadn’t told them, to be honest.” He clarified, however, that the intention behind this decision was to prevent any pressure that might influence his narrative.
One of the more controversial aspects of Spencer’s reflections involves the funeral procession of Princess Diana, during which William and Harry, aged 15 and 12 respectively, walked behind their mother’s coffin. Spencer has publicly opposed this notion, asserting that the boys should never have been made to participate. He remarked, “Nobody now can possibly think that was the right thing to do,” admitting to a lingering sense of guilt for not preventing them from taking part in such a public display of grief.
The wider impact of “Swan Song” has been mirrored by cautious responses from Buckingham Palace. A spokesperson stated that while they generally refrain from commenting on books, it is understood that grief can significantly influence how individuals perceive and recount memories, particularly related to loss. Spencer responded to these sentiments by reiterating his commitment to truth, asserting that his narrative comes from a place of honesty about his sister’s life.
Within the pages of this memoir, Spencer delves into various revelations, including details surrounding conversations he had with Prince Charles shortly after Diana’s passing. He hints at revelations about her former marriage, including claims from Diana herself regarding Charles’s alleged affections toward his valet.
Ultimately, Spencer aims to use this memoir not only as a tribute to his sister but also as an opportunity to dispel certain myths that have surrounded her life. He believes that Diana would appreciate the book’s intent, as it celebrates her nature and character, characterising the work as a compilation of compliments towards her. “This book, in my view, is something she would like,” he concluded, reinforcing the personal and emotional connection he maintains to his sister’s legacy.
As Spencer continues to navigate the complexities of royal family relationships, his book serves as both an intricate portrait of Princess Diana and a reflection on familial bonds that persist through shared experiences of loss and grief.