Actors Katherine LaNasa and Grant Show have celebrated over a decade of marriage, a milestone they attribute to a straightforward yet humorous philosophy: “Our key to staying married? … Not getting divorced,” LaNasa quipped in a light-hearted interview with PEOPLE. The couple, who first met while working on the HBO series *Big Love* in 2006, have successfully navigated the complexities of both a busy family life and thriving dual careers.
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LaNasa and Show, who officially tied the knot in August 2012, welcomed their daughter Eloise into the world in March 2014. Before marrying Show, LaNasa was previously wed to actor Dennis Hopper, with whom she shares a son, Henry, born in 1990. Show had his own past marriage to actress Pollyanna McIntosh. The blending of their families has been a significant aspect of their relationship, with LaNasa often expressing gratitude for Show’s involvement as a supportive partner and stepfather.
The couple’s journey began when they first crossed paths on the set of *Big Love*. Although they didn’t have much interaction during filming—Show’s character ultimately replaced LaNasa’s—fate brought them together again eight months later in Vancouver. They began dating after realising their earlier friendships had the potential for something deeper. In July 2012, just a month before their wedding, they announced their engagement amid excitement and wedding plans, marking a new chapter in their lives.
Their wedding took place at The Oak Grove at Ribbit Tree & Plant Nursery in Topanga, California, where they celebrated their love surrounded by nature. Reflecting on the day, they remarked, “We’re so happy we found each other,” capturing the essence of their enduring bond.
Both stars have established considerable careers in the entertainment industry. LaNasa achieved a significant career milestone in 2025 by winning an Emmy for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Drama Series for her role in *The Pitt*. Show has expressed immense pride in his wife’s accomplishments, stating, “She works harder than anyone I know.” He highlighted the joy he felt witnessing her recognition after 35 years of dedication to her craft.
Show is notably recognised for his portrayal of Jake Hanson on the iconic *Melrose Place*, a character he reprised across three different shows in the franchise, including *Beverly Hills, 90210*. His career spans roles in acclaimed series such as *Six Feet Under* and *Dynasty*. In fact, he spent five seasons portraying Blake Carrington on the CW reboot of *Dynasty*, showcasing his versatility as an actor.
Maintaining their marriage amidst demanding schedules has required diligence and commitment. Show previously revealed their strategy for staying connected: “We make sure to get together in the same city and in the same bed at least once every 10 days.” This dedication has involved extensive travel, with both actors flying to meet each other regularly to ensure they remain a stable presence in each other’s lives.
Despite the physical distances created by their careers, the couple prioritise communication. Show remarked that they would speak “three or four times” daily, ensuring that they remain in touch and engaged with one another, even when separated by miles.
LaNasa’s heartfelt acceptance speech at the 2025 Emmys exemplified their partnership. In it, she expressed gratitude to her family, saying, “Lastly, my children for making me real, and my beautiful husband Grant Show for helping me always with everything.” This public acknowledgement not only highlighted their personal connection but also illustrated the support system they have built together.
With their daughter Eloise now growing up in the spotlight, LaNasa and Show continue to prioritise family. Balancing their careers while nurturing their family life, the couple show that with love, laughter, and a little effort, a lasting marriage is achievable, even in the demanding world of show business. As they move forward, their journey together serves as an inspiring story for many fans and aspiring couples alike.