Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka recently celebrated a significant milestone, marking their 12th wedding anniversary on 6 September. The couple, who tied the knot in Italy in 2014, took to social media to express their love and gratitude for one another, sharing heartfelt tributes that captivated their followers.
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Acclaimed actor Harris, known for his role in “How I Met Your Mother,” shared a touching post on Instagram, including a nostalgic photograph of the couple sampling their wedding cake on their special day. Accompanied by a caption that read, “12 years ago today,” Harris reflected on their bond, expressing his deep gratitude to Burtka for agreeing to marry him. “I’m forever grateful that you did,” he added, alongside a heart emoji and a touching dedication to their enduring love.
Burtka also joined in the celebrations with a heartfelt Instagram post of his own. “12 years today I said I do! Wow- 12 years have flown by,” he wrote, alongside a bright solo image of Harris. In this tribute, Burtka emphasized his happiness and appreciation for their time together, declaring, “I couldn’t be happier with anyone else by my side. I love you @nph.”

In addition to their loving messages, the couple entertained their followers with a fan-made reel on Instagram, featuring a compilation of photos that highlighted their relationship set to Olivia Dean’s song “So Easy (To Fall in Love).” In a charming addition to the footage, Burtka shared an enthusiastic announcement: “12 years married today!!”
The journey for Harris and Burtka began in 2004, but the couple maintained a relatively private relationship until they made their first public appearance together at the Emmys in 2007. Six years later, they revealed they were expecting twins, subsequently welcoming fraternal twins Harper and Gideon through surrogacy in October 2010.
Following the landmark 2011 ruling that legalised same-sex marriage in New York, Harris and Burtka announced their engagement. The couple exchanged vows in a lavish ceremony in Italy three years later, marrying in bespoke Tom Ford tuxedos. Their close friend Pam Fryman, who had directed Harris in “How I Met Your Mother,” officiated the ceremony, which was made even more memorable with a performance by Elton John.
Reflecting on their successful partnership, Harris previously shared insights into maintaining a strong marriage during an interview with Entertainment Tonight. He attributed the longevity of their relationship to the importance of perseverance, admitting that “It’s not always pretty.” Yet, he added with a sense of humour, “He’s (David Burtka) pretty, so it makes it easy.”
Attendees of their wedding included the couple’s young twins, who were just three years old at the time. This family-centric atmosphere encapsulated the essence of their relationship, which has continued to flourish over the years.
As celebrated figures known not only for their professional accomplishments but also for their advocacy of LGBTQ+ rights, Harris and Burtka’s enduring love story serves as an inspiration for many. Their willingness to share glimpses of their personal lives highlights the importance of representation and love in various forms.
As they bask in the joy of their recent anniversary, Harris and Burtka’s story continues to be more than just a tale of two individuals; it is a narrative of triumph, commitment, and the power of love that transcends societal changes. With their continued dedication to each other and their family, it is evident that they are not just celebrating twelve years of marriage, but a lifetime of love and partnership ahead.
