Dutch footballer Cody Gakpo and his partner, Noa van der Bij, have shared the heart-wrenching news of a pregnancy loss, a poignant moment during a time when Gakpo is representing the Netherlands at the 2026 World Cup. The couple, who have one child together, a son named Samuël, took to social media to express their grief.
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On Saturday, June 27, Noa van der Bij announced the tragic loss through her Instagram Stories. In her heartfelt message, she wrote, “With broken hearts, we share the devastating news that our baby boy passed away during pregnancy.” The post resonated deeply, as it conveyed both the sorrow of loss and gratitude for the support they have received.
Van der Bij revealed the name they had chosen for their unborn child, Elijah Raphael Gakpo, stating, “Forever loved. Forever our son.” This tribute highlights the couple’s enduring bond with their child and their commitment to honouring his memory.
Cody Gakpo echoed Noa’s sentiments by sharing the post on his own Instagram Stories. He expressed the challenging nature of this period for their family, requesting privacy to cope with their loss. “This is an incredibly difficult time for our family. We kindly ask for privacy and space. Thank you for understanding,” he added, revealing the emotional toll the situation has taken on them.
In a subsequent post, van der Bij shared yet another touching moment. She recounted a visit to a church where they lit a candle in remembrance of their baby. After the visit, they took their son Samuël to a nearby playground, where they encountered another child named Elijah. Van der Bij described this encounter as a “beautiful sign,” suggesting a connection that brought some comfort during their time of mourning.
Despite the personal tragedy, Gakpo has opted to continue competing in the World Cup. In a statement, the Dutch Football Association expressed their condolences. “First and foremost, our thoughts are with Cody and his family, Noa and their son Samuel. This is a very sad, private situation,” the statement read. The association confirmed that they are providing support to the family while respecting their privacy.
Prior to this heartbreaking news, van der Bij had publicly shared their pregnancy announcement on May 30. The announcement featured a collection of joyful family photographs, highlighting Samuël wearing a blue hat that read “big brother.” In the caption, van der Bij expressed excitement about the family’s growth, stating, “Our little family is growing 🤍 we can’t wait to meet you.”
Cody Gakpo has had a significant year, celebrating his son Samuël’s first birthday earlier in April. On that special occasion, he posted a tribute online, reflecting on the joy his son has brought into their lives. “One year ago, you came into our lives and changed everything in the most beautiful way. Today we celebrate you — our little happy boy, our everything. We love you forever Samuël Seth,” he wrote, illustrating the profound bond he shares with his family.
As Gakpo continues to represent his country on the football field, he does so with a heavy heart. This juxtaposition of personal loss and professional commitment encapsulates the challenges athletes often face in balancing their public and private lives. In the wake of their loss, the couple has also highlighted the importance of community and support, demonstrating that even in sadness, there is an opportunity for connection and understanding.
As they navigate this difficult chapter, the couple has found solace in each other and their loving relationship with their son. The tributes to their unborn child highlight a deep familial love and a commitment to remembrance, which will undoubtedly serve as a source of strength for Gakpo and van der Bij in the days to come.