Barry Manilow Opens Up About How ‘Relentless’ Criticism Used to Make Him Feel ‘Self-Pity’: ‘I Didn’t Agree with Them’

Barry Manilow, the iconic singer-songwriter, has recently opened up about the struggles he has faced throughout his long career, including a poignant reflection on the impact of criticism on his mental health. The 82-year-old artist, famed for hits such as “Mandy,” is one of the best-selling musicians of all time, but he shared that the negative remarks from critics have sometimes overshadowed his achievements.

In a candid interview with *The Guardian*, Manilow revealed how the harsh feedback regarding his music affected his self-esteem. Critics have often labelled his work as overly sentimental, a sentiment famously echoed by Phil Collins in a 1986 *Playboy* interview, which described Manilow’s music as “spineless.” Despite enjoying dedicated support from his loyal fanbase, affectionately known as “Fanilows,” the negativity from reviewers took its toll on his psyche.

“It was as if I’d hurt somebody in their family,” Manilow commented, reminiscing on a particularly harsh 15-year stretch filled with relentless and scathing reviews. He also recalled feeling humiliated; jokes about his music and appearance became a frequent punchline in the industry. Reflecting on those times, he admitted that he would often succumb to feelings of self-pity, stating, “I would pull the covers over my head” after reading unkind words about him.

While dealing with these sentiments, Manilow has demonstrated remarkable resilience. He noted that he learned to leave some of that negativity behind, asserting, “I didn’t agree with them.” He explained that this determination allowed him to continue performing, despite the pervasive criticism. “I think I trust myself more. I believe in myself, in my talent,” he added, expressing a newfound confidence in the face of adversity.

Additionally, a 1984 interview with *PEOPLE* showcased Manilow grappling with the various names hurled at him by critics. He admitted that the words hurt deeply because he often internalised them before anyone else had the chance to. However, his recent remarks indicate a more self-assured artist who feels he still has much to offer, especially if he continues to irk critics.

In a more personal revelation, Manilow addressed his recent health challenges, having been diagnosed with stage 1 lung cancer last year. This diagnosis led him to cancel several performances, and he underwent a lobectomy as part of his treatment. In a cover story in *PEOPLE*, the singer shared that he has since recovered from cancer, although he is still in the process of regaining his strength and voice.

“My body doesn’t want to take me there,” he stated, referring to the uncertainty surrounding his return to performing. “It’s not even doctor’s orders, it’s my body’s orders.” Manilow is taking his time to recover, navigating the intricate balance of healing and his passion for music.

Manilow’s new album, *What a Time*, is set to be released on June 5, offering his fans fresh material to enjoy. Throughout his health journey, he has received overwhelming support from not only his fans but also his husband and manager, Garry Kief. “I had no idea that there were that many people out there that even knew I was alive,” he expressed, clearly moved by the outpouring of love and well-wishes he received from supporters worldwide.

The messages he received, filled with encouragement and kindness, have made the arduous experience of battling cancer a little bit more bearable. “It should be a horrible experience, and it was, but those notes and those people made it doable,” he reflected, highlighting the importance of community and support during difficult times.

As Barry Manilow looks to the future, he seems determined not only to reclaim his voice but also to maintain his connection with the fans who have stood by him throughout his tumultuous career. His journey serves as a reminder of the challenges that even the most celebrated artists can face, both onstage and off. With resilience and support, he continues to navigate the complexities of health and public perception, emerging as an inspiration to many.