Australian actress Phoebe Tonkin and art advisor Bernard Lagrange are celebrating their one-year wedding anniversary, which they marked with a heartfelt social media tribute. The couple exchanged vows in a beautiful ceremony on May 10, 2025, in New York City, and Tonkin took to Instagram to commemorate the occasion by sharing a tender photo of the two sharing a kiss beside their intricately designed wedding cakes.
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The image, which showcased the pair against the backdrop of their stunning swan-shaped cakes, was accompanied by the caption “One year 🦢🤍.” The cakes, crafted by renowned pastry artist Paris Starn, featured life-size swans adorned with elaborate buttercream wings and rose petals, making for a truly unforgettable dessert display.


Tonkin and Lagrange’s nuptials took place at the All Souls Church, a non-denominational venue that set the stage for their spiritual ceremony. The couple’s wedding was attended by an array of high-profile guests, including Australian actresses Margot Robbie and Samara Weaving, as well as notable figures like Eiza González and Shaun White. Tonkin’s former colleagues from her time on “The Vampire Diaries,” Nina Dobrev and Claire Holt, were also present to share in the celebration.
Reflecting on their special day, Tonkin previously shared insights with Vogue, explaining how important it was for them to curate a celebration that encapsulated not just their love, but their connection to the city they both cherish. “We had a very clear idea of the type of wedding we wanted. We wanted to share the city we love so much with the people who matter the most to us,” she stated, adding that their vision included beautiful floral arrangements, delightful music, and exquisite cuisine.
Since their wedding, Tonkin has continued to thrive both personally and professionally, describing newlywed life as “the best.” Speaking to PEOPLE in September 2025, she reflected on the joy of spending quality time with Lagrange. “It’s nice to be back and actually enjoying married life,” she said, revealing that she had been working on a project in Australia shortly after their marriage.
Tonkin’s professional commitments have remained busy, with the actress filming in Brisbane for the upcoming romantic dramedy series “Two Years Later,” alongside fellow actor Brenton Thwaites. Following the wedding festivities, she jumped straight into this new role, which is set to premiere on Paramount+ on June 4, 2025.
As the couple looks back on their first year together, it’s evident that they have established a strong foundation, balancing their individual careers with their shared life as spouses. Their future appears bright as they continue to navigate married life while pursuing their respective passions.
The photograph shared by Tonkin, along with her sweet caption, highlights the love and connection they share, providing a glimpse into their journey together. As they celebrate this milestone, fans of the couple are looking forward to witnessing more joyful moments from their union in the years ahead.
With their wedding now behind them and new adventures on the horizon, Phoebe Tonkin and Bernard Lagrange are an inspiring reminder of the beauty of love and the hope that comes with embarking on a lifelong partnership.
