Demi Lovato and her husband Jutes recently shared a sentimental moment during her ongoing “It’s Not That Deep Tour” at Madison Square Garden in New York City. The couple performed a heartfelt rendition of “Iris,” the iconic balled by the Goo Goo Dolls, a song that holds deep significance for them. This performance was particularly special as it marked a nostalgic trip down memory lane, reflecting their wedding day in May 2025, when the very same song served as their wedding anthem.
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During the concert on April 24, Lovato invited Jutes, whose real name is Jordan Lutes, to join her on stage, much to the delight of the crowd. The couple’s chemistry shone through as they sang together, creating a beautiful atmosphere that had audience members singing along with them. The song, which was released in 1998, has been a long-time favourite for the pair, adding an extra layer of sentimentality to their public performance.
Jutes and Lovato first revealed their love for “Iris” publicly during their wedding. In a remarkable twist, they had the Goo Goo Dolls’ frontman, John Rzeznik, perform an acoustic version of the song during their ceremony in California. This moment fulfilled Lovato’s heartfelt wish, shared in an interview with Hoda Kotb and Jenna Bush Hager on Today in February 2024, where she expressed her dream of having the band play the song live as their first dance.
The couple exchanged vows in an intimate ceremony on May 25, 2025, and their dream of having Rzeznik perform at their wedding came true, making it an unforgettable occasion. Jutes spoke of the experience during an interview on the Zach Sang Show in December, expressing disbelief at the occurrence, saying, “That was, in the moment, me and Demi were looking at each other, and I was just like, ‘What’s going on right now?!’” He described the event as “one of the coolest things” he had experienced, highlighting how surreal it was to be serenaded by the man behind such an important song.
Lovato echoed these sentiments, telling Vogue that having Rzeznik perform was a “pinch-us moment.” She emphasized the emotional significance of the song in their relationship, calling it their favourite, filled with meaning for both of them. The performance added a personal touch to their already special day, representing their love story in a poignant way.
Adding to the celebration of their union, the Goo Goo Dolls shared a heartfelt tribute on social media. They posted a black-and-white photo capturing the newlyweds’ first dance, with Rzeznik on guitar in the background, stating, “It was an absolute pleasure attending the wedding of @ddlovato & @jutesmusic and performing ‘Iris’ during their first dance together as husband & wife ❤️💍.”
“Iris,” written by Rzeznik for the 1998 film “City of Angels,” is a staple in the band’s live performances and has garnered a devoted following over the years. Its emotional lyrics and haunting melody resonate with many, making it an ideal choice for lovers.
Lovato and Jutes first went public with their romance in August 2022. At the time, insiders described their relationship as a “really happy and healthy one,” noting Jutes as a supportive partner. Their engagement was announced on December 16, 2023, following a deeply personal proposal in Los Angeles, cementing their commitment to each other.
As the couple continues to navigate their life together, the cherished memories surrounding “Iris” serve as a reminder of their love story, from their wedding to now sharing the stage. Lovato’s heartfelt performances, paired with Jutes’ musical talents, hint at a promising journey ahead for the couple as they embrace both their personal and professional lives.