On a recent episode of the podcast ‘Friends Keep Secrets’, Selena Gomez shared her aspirations for family life with her husband, Benny Blanco. The couple’s intimate conversation took place during the second episode of the show, which was released on March 3. Gomez, 33, expressed her desire to raise a large family, stating that she hopes to have four children in total.
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The podcast is hosted by Blanco, 37, alongside friends Lil Dicky—whose real name is Dave Burd—and his wife Kristin Batalucco. During the discussion, the topic of family size arose, prompting Blancho to ask his guests about their own childrearing aspirations. Burd mentioned that he and his wife would only consider having one or two children, while Batalucco expressed a slight preference for three.
Setting herself apart, Gomez was resolute about her dream of having a quartet of children. She explained that her inspiration came from a memorable scene in the holiday film ‘The Family Stone’. The film, which features renowned actress Diane Keaton as the matriarch of a family navigating the challenge of welcoming their son’s girlfriend during Christmas, left a lasting impact on Gomez. Keaton’s character reflected qualities that resonate with Gomez’s memories of her own grandmother, or “nana”, who she admired deeply.
Gomez pointed out that the scene depicting a family gathered around the dinner table encapsulated what she envisions for her future. She elaborated, “One day at my dinner table, when I’m her age, I want to see that dinner table.” The spirited exchange revealed Gomez’s sentimentality and hopefulness about family dynamics, as she acknowledged that life might not unfold precisely as she wishes, stating, “Whatever happens, happens.”
During the conversation, Blanco and Gomez underscored the film’s emotional depth, describing it as “sweet” and “touching,” while also recognising its more melancholic undertones. Their discussions extended to the idea of family as a nurturing community, with Batalucco chiming in to emphasise the enriching experience that family brings to life.
In a light-hearted moment, Gomez playfully recognised the chaos that raising multiple children would bring, joking that it would likely feel like “crazy hell” until they reached adulthood. This candidness was reflective of the couple’s affectionate rapport and their shared dreams of a vibrant family life.
Prior to their wedding in September 2025, Blanco revealed to InStyle his own hopes of becoming a father. His sentiments echoed those of Gomez, as he expressed his aspiration to one day have children of his own. “I love kids; I love being an uncle,” Blanco shared, highlighting his heartfelt desire to embrace fatherhood when the time comes.
This heartfelt discussion on ‘Friends Keep Secrets’ not only showcases Gomez’s nurturing dreams but also opens up conversations about family aspirations within modern relationships. It is a reminder of the love and commitment that accompanies planning for the future, one filled with the pitter-patter of tiny feet and laughter around the dinner table.
Listeners can look forward to new episodes of ‘Friends Keep Secrets’, which will air weekly, providing further glimpses into the lives and thoughts of Gomez and Blanco, as well as their circle of friends. As the couple embarks on their journey together, fans and followers will eagerly await to see how their dreams of family unfold.