Hilary Duff Says She and Matthew Koma Don’t Fight Except for Their ‘One Drag-Out’ Argument Per Year

Hilary Duff recently opened up about her relationship with husband Matthew Koma during an interview with actress Dakota Fanning for *Interview* magazine. The couple, who first crossed paths while working on Duff’s 2015 album *Breathe In. Breathe Out.*, have maintained a notably harmonious partnership, a fact the 38-year-old pop star was keen to highlight.

In the discussion, Duff was asked by Fanning how working alongside her husband impacts their relationship. With a hint of humour, she stated, “Everyone’s like, ‘How is it working with your husband? Do you guys fight a lot?’ I’m like, ‘We literally never fight.’” However, she did concede that they do have a single “drag-out fight” each year, suggesting that their approach to conflict is not typical of many couples.

Reflecting on their relationship, Duff recalled a recent conversation with Koma where he noted the length of time since their last argument. “He was like, ‘We haven’t had a fight in such a long time.’ I’m like, ‘Are you ready?’” she jested, clearly comfortable with both her husband and the topic of their rare disagreements.

While recalling the only notable clash between the couple, Duff recounted a rather intense moment when she threw Koma’s phone into a bougainvillaea bush amid the chaos caused by wildfires in Los Angeles. “It was during the fires,” she explained, referring to the significant wildfires that impacted the area in January 2025. “We had been displaced, we had all the kids, and we just needed to have it out. But we don’t usually fight.”

Beyond the occasional disagreement, Duff praised Koma for being an incredible support throughout her artistic endeavours, including the creation of her latest album and the planning of her forthcoming *Lucky Me Tour*. She expressed gratitude for having him in her life, describing their relationship as a partnership: “The comfort I feel, having that guy in my corner — it sounds so cheesy to say, but waking up every day and taking on the things in our world — we’re such a unit,” she said.

Duff also remarked on her personal evolution, sharing how her time in the entertainment industry had initially instilled a sense of independence that made it difficult for her to accept help. “That’s such a dorky word, but I was like, ‘I’m tough. I’ve got this,’” she said. “It took me a really long time to accept how much he could take off of my plate.”

In addition to his role as a supportive partner, Koma has made a significant mark as an accomplished musician. Duff described her husband as “insanely talented,” having been dedicated to music since he was a teenager. She noted that he has been creating music “all day, every day since he was 15 years old,” further showcasing his commitment to his craft.

When discussing her creative process, Duff was clear about her desire to collaborate solely with Koma, stating, “I wasn’t interested in making a record with anyone else. I was like, ‘It has to just be me and you.’” She emphasized that their work together was not about chasing a hit but rather creating a cohesive body of work that resonates with fans who have grown up listening to her music.

Duff concluded her reflections by expressing how Koma has elevated her work beyond her expectations. She acknowledged the importance of authenticity in their collaboration, stating, “He definitely elevates me and my taste beyond belief. It feels really cohesive.”

As Duff prepares to embark on her upcoming tour, it is clear that her strong bond with Koma not only enriches her personal life but also enhances her artistic journey, allowing her to reconnect with her audience in a meaningful way. With both partners committed to their family and creative endeavours, their relationship serves as an inspiring example of collaboration and support in both love and work.