Jonathan Joss’ Husband Insists His Murder Is a Hate Crime Despite Police Assertions
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Tristan Kern de Gonzales, the grieving husband of Jonathan Joss, 59, is amplifying his call for justice, contending that his partner’s untimely death was a result of a hate crime. Kern de Gonzales took to social media to assert, “Jonathan Joss is my husband. I don’t say ‘was’ because he will always be my husband. He will always be the love of my life.” These emotional words were shared in a poignant TikTok video posted on the Justice for Joss account on Wednesday, June 4th.

Despite his initial unfamiliarity with the TikTok platform and the spotlight it brings, Kern de Gonzales decided to establish a profile to garner followers and share the message about Joss’ tragic demise. The actor was fatally shot by a neighbor on June 1 in San Antonio, Texas, an incident that Kern de Gonzales firmly believes was motivated by hate. He expressed frustration after an unsuccessful attempt to use a friend’s TikTok account to discuss the shooting, as the platform reportedly disabled the live feature, prompting him to start his own account to ensure his voice was heard.
In an emotional plea, Kern de Gonzales vowed to continue advocating not just for justice in his husband’s case but also to honour Joss’ memory and his beliefs. He stressed, “We’re gonna laugh together. We’re gonna cry together. We’re gonna be angry together.” Kern de Gonzales affirmed his commitment, stating, “We won’t stop talking about this. I’m not going to let the SAPD or anyone else silence the fact that this was a hate crime, and I just won’t be silenced.”
Adding more fuel to his claims, Kern de Gonzales made a heartfelt post on Joss’ Facebook page on June 2, explicitly stating that the incident was indeed a hate crime. Detailing the events leading up to the shooting, he recounted the harrowing threats they had faced in the area, including the burning down of their home after repeated warnings. Kern de Gonzales’ assertions directly contradict findings by the San Antonio Police Department, which suggested that there is “no evidence to indicate that the Mr. Joss’s murder was related to his sexual orientation.”
As the case unfolds, the San Antonio Police Department continues to investigate the circumstances surrounding Jonathan Joss’ tragic death. Despite their assertion that there is no evidence linking the murder to a hate crime, Kern de Gonzales remains resolute in his belief and unwavering support for his late husband. The heartbreaking loss has deeply impacted not only those in San Antonio but also fans worldwide who mourn the loss of the beloved actor.
Sigfredo Ceja Alvarez, the suspect charged with first-degree murder in connection with the case, was released on bail after posting a significant bond. The ongoing developments in the investigation have spurred conversations around hate crimes and the importance of seeking justice for victims like Jonathan Joss, whose life was cut short under tragic circumstances.
In these challenging times, Kern de Gonzales’ unwavering determination to fight for justice and keep his husband’s memory alive serves as a poignant reminder of the impact of hate crimes on individuals and communities. As he continues to share his story and advocate for accountability, his message resonates with all who believe in fighting against discrimination and prejudice in all its forms.
