Kate and Andy Spade ‘Were Trying To Work Things Out’ Before Her Death (Exclusive)
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Kate Spade and her husband Andy Spade were living separately at the time of her death, but were “trying to work things out,” according to her best friend. In a poignant memoir titled ‘We Might Just Make It After All,’ Elyce Arons shares the story of her beautiful friendship with Kate and the business they built together.

Seven years after the tragic death of Kate Spade, Elyce Arons pens a heartfelt account shedding light on the woman beyond the chic handbag line that captured the nineties. Arons, in her book, unveils the private side of Kate, affectionately known as “Katy,” showcasing moments of laughter and the silent struggles that Kate seldom shared.
The couple, married for 24 years, had been intricately involved in creating the iconic Kate Spade brand alongside Arons and Pamela Bell. Even after selling the company, Kate and Elyce continued their entrepreneurial journey by launching the accessories and clothing line, Frances Valentine, in 2016.
Despite their decision to live apart, Kate and Andy remained closely connected. Elyce Arons affirms, “They were trying to work things out — and they were always in each other’s lives every day. They loved each other deeply.”
Following Kate’s passing, Andy Spade openly addressed their relationship status, revealing they had been living separately for ten months but had never broached the topic of divorce. Their enduring bond as best friends was evident as they navigated through their challenges.
Andy further disclosed that Kate had been actively seeking professional help to manage her struggles, showcasing her determination to battle the inner demons that ultimately led to her untimely demise. He emphasized the importance of raising awareness and reducing the stigma surrounding mental health issues.
Elyce Arons emphasises the importance of advocating for mental health support and awareness in memory of Kate Spade. She has crafted a special edition Frances Valentine tote to raise funds for Hope for Depression, with all proceeds dedicated to advancing research and diagnosis in the field.
Reflecting on Kate’s legacy and the enduring impact of her passing, Arons concludes her memoir with a heartfelt message urging everyone to cherish their loved ones and never take relationships for granted. The memoir serves as a poignant reminder of the significance of empathy and support for those battling mental health challenges.
As the narrative unfolds, readers are invited to delve deeper into the profound friendship shared by Elyce, Kate, and Andy, offering a glimpse into the complexities of personal struggles and the resilience found in genuine connections. The memoir encapsulates the essence of enduring friendships and the profound impact of mental health advocacy in society.
In an era where mental health awareness is paramount, the story of Kate and Andy Spade serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of providing support and compassion to those grappling with inner turmoil. By shedding light on Kate’s journey, Elyce Arons honours her memory and advocates for a more understanding and empathetic society.
The memoir, ‘We Might Just Make It After All,’ stands as a testament to the enduring legacy of Kate Spade and the profound impact of her life on those who cherished her. Through her words, Elyce Arons invites readers to reflect on the power of compassion and the significance of nurturing meaningful connections in the face of adversity.
