Rachel Lindsay, the former Bachelorette star, recently spoke out about her divorce from Bryan Abasolo on her podcast, Higher Learning. In the episode released on April 4, Lindsay expressed her frustration regarding the alimony she has been ordered to pay following their divorce settlement earlier this year. The settlement included a substantial sum of nearly $1 million, with over $460,000 designated for spousal support.
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Lindsay and Abasolo first met during their time on The Bachelorette in 2017 and tied the knot in 2019. However, their marriage came to an end when Abasolo filed for divorce in January 2024. Lindsay revealed on her podcast that she is tired of the narrative that suggests her success was the primary factor in the breakdown of their relationship, emphasizing that both parties made sacrifices during their time together.
The former couple’s divorce settlement required Lindsay to make a $500,000 equalization payment to Abasolo and also pay him over $460,000 in spousal support. Lindsay highlighted her discontent with the perception that her ex-partner made career sacrifices for her benefit, as she believes that both of them made sacrifices during their marriage. Lindsay firmly stated that she should not be penalized for her success during their time together while Abasolo was not as successful.
During the podcast episode, Lindsay also addressed the issue of people taking advantage of the spousal support system. She expressed her belief that individuals who are capable of working and pursuing various opportunities should not be receiving spousal support. Lindsay indicated that while she was willing to provide financial support to her ex, she disagreed with what she perceived as exploitation of the system.
Lindsay further discussed Abasolo’s claims that he had made career sacrifices for her, clarifying that the reality was different. She detailed the various moves they made, citing instances where Abasolo left his job following their appearance on The Bachelorette, leading to their relocation based on his decision. Lindsay asserted that their moves were mutual decisions and not solely driven by her career.
In reflecting on her divorce and the financial implications, Lindsay shared her perspective on what she believes motivated Abasolo’s actions. She suggested that jealousy and resentment played a significant role in how he approached the divorce proceedings. While Lindsay has addressed the issue on her podcast, she has largely remained silent about it publicly.
Rachel Lindsay’s candid discussion about her divorce sheds light on the complexities and challenges that can arise in relationships, especially when it comes to issues like financial support and career sacrifices. Lindsay’s openness about her experiences serves as a reminder of the importance of communication, mutual understanding, and respect in any partnership to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts that can lead to the end of a marriage.