Lindsie Chrisley Calls Weddings ‘Performative,’ Argues It’s Justifiable to Bill No-Show Guests

In a recent episode of her podcast “The Southern Tea,” Lindsie Chrisley shared her candid thoughts on wedding etiquette, igniting discussion on social media regarding the responsibilities of wedding guests. During the episode on 28 October, Chrisley responded to a story that had gone viral about a bride who sent an invoice to two invited guests who failed to attend her wedding after RSVPing yes. The charges covered the costs for their missed meals, amounting to £75.90.

Chrisley, known for her role in the reality show “Chrisley Knows Best,” posed a question to her co-host, Hunter Prestridge, regarding whether it is reasonable to charge guests for their absence. She explored the implications of such actions and sought Prestridge’s opinion, asking if sending an invoice to a no-show guest is entirely “unhinged” or could be justified.

Prestridge, while acknowledging the rudeness of failing to attend without notice, dismissed the idea of billing wedding guests as “absolutely unhinged” and “rude as hell.” He suggested that hosting a wedding should involve accepting the financial burden that comes with it, stating, “If you want to have a wedding, then be ready to cover it.” However, he did concede that backing out at the last minute after RSVPing could be perceived as inconsiderate.

Despite this, Chrisley maintained her stance that charging guests was a fair response given the high expenses associated with weddings. She mentioned that the cost of £75.90 per head adds up, and she asserted, “I’m sorry, but if this was me, you’re getting a Venmo request.” However, she highlighted that exceptions could apply if guests had a legitimate reason for their absence, such as a medical situation.

In what can be described as a rather unconventional take on weddings, Chrisley expressed her personal reluctance to attend such events. She stated, “Actually, don’t invite me to your wedding. Like, I probably don’t wanna go. It’s a time that I don’t wanna dress up.” She voiced her belief that weddings often feel “performative” and mentioned being the “worst RSVPer ever,” noting her hesitance to commit to events due to uncertainty about her schedule.

Despite her reservations, Chrisley admitted that less formal weddings tend to be more enjoyable. She expressed a preference for food stations over traditional seating arrangements and formal dinners, stating that if she were to marry again, she would opt for a relaxed setting with various food options. She envisioned meat-carving stations and loaded potato martini stations, coupled with an open bar as essential elements for a successful celebration.

This discussion comes shortly after her sister Savannah Chrisley announced her engagement to Jason Galanis, revealing plans for their wedding in May 2027 during the episode of her own podcast, “Unlocked with Savannah Chrisley,” which aired on 27 October. The Chrisley family dynamic has been a topic of interest over the years, with Lindsie confirming her estrangement from her father, Todd Chrisley, and stepmother, Julie Chrisley, while having a different relationship with her siblings from her father’s current marriage.

The collision of personal views on weddings and the public’s expectations has sparked an ongoing debate about what is appropriate during such ceremonies. Lindsie’s guidance serves as a reflection of shifting attitudes toward traditional wedding norms, highlighting a growing desire for authenticity and less rigidity in celebratory events. As discussions around wedding etiquette continue to evolve, Chrisley’s comments resonate with those who may feel burdened by societal expectations surrounding marriage celebrations.

As wedding season approaches, it will be interesting to see whether Chrisley’s thoughts on invoicing non-attendees gain traction among couples planning their big days and how potential guests might respond to such policies.