Judi Dench has opened up about her deep friendship with the late Maggie Smith in her recent memoir, *Is It Too Late to Make a Run for It?*, which reflects on their enduring connection amidst the backdrop of their extensive careers in theatre and film. Smith, who passed away in 2024 at the age of 89, shared a bond with Dench that was forged in the 1950s and continued until the end of her life.
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Dench’s book aims to dispel long-held myths surrounding her relationship with Smith, particularly a rumour that suggested a contentious dispute over dressing room arrangements during their performances. The actress discusses this in detail, specifically addressing an incident during their time at the Haymarket Theatre in London while performing the 2002 play *The Breath of Life*.
In her memoir, co-written with Brendan O’Hea, Dench alludes to Dressing Room 10, which she describes as “exquisite.” Despite the anecdote that has led many to speculate about competition between the two actresses, Dench clarifies that any reference to a disagreement over dressing rooms between them is simply unfounded.
“I did use Dressing Room 10, but that’s only because Mags wanted Dressing Room 1, which, although smaller, was closer to the stage,” Dench explained. She elaborated on Smith’s reluctance to navigate the stairs to her dressing room, saying, “I know how she felt; at the end of the show, I used to beg for someone strong to carry me up the three flights to my room.” This illustration of their camaraderie adds a personal touch to the ongoing narrative about their roles in the theatre world.
When questioned by O’Hea about the nature of actors’ disputes regarding dressing rooms, Dench vehemently rejected the suggestion, exclaiming, “Don’t be ridiculous. What’s the matter with people? Haven’t they got enough to worry about with the play? I never mind where I am.” She further expressed her openness to sharing a dressing room, despite humorously acknowledging the differences in her and Smith’s personalities.
Dench noted, “We’re too different. Mags would prefer to sit in a corner, quietly reading,” contrasting her own preference for the lively atmosphere of backstage interactions. This commentary on their differences paints a picture of a friendship that thrived despite contrasting temperaments, amplifying the richness of their experiences together as acclaimed artists.
The two actresses initially encountered one another in 1958 at London’s Old Vic theatre and went on to grace numerous stages and film sets together. They shared notable performances in films such as *A Room with a View*, *Tea with Mussolini*, and *Ladies in Lavender*, as well as the 2018 documentary *Nothing Like a Dame*, which celebrated their illustrious careers alongside other iconic actresses.
Both Dench and Smith are regarded as monumental figures in British cinema, each having earned various accolades throughout their careers. Smith’s legacy includes two Academy Awards, while Dench secured an Oscar for her role in *Shakespeare in Love* and has received multiple nominations over the years.
In her memoir, Dench offers a nuanced portrayal of Smith, describing her as a “very complex person—intensely private, and I suspect quite lonely at times.” Despite this insight into Smith’s character, Dench also fondly recalls the joy and laughter that Smith brought into her life. “She really was the most marvelous company,” Dench writes. “She had a ferocious intelligence, an acerbic wit, and was very, very funny.”
Reflecting on Smith’s physical beauty and charisma, Dench reminisced about her friend’s vibrant red hair, remarking, “I mean really striking. And yet there wasn’t an ounce of vanity about her.” The affection that Dench expresses in her writing illustrates not only a profound sense of grief but also an enduring appreciation for the moments they shared.
As Dench continues to navigate life without her beloved friend, she openly admits to feeling the loss in poignant ways. “I sometimes go to pick up the phone, thinking I must give her a ring, just to hear her voice, and I realise she’s no longer there,” she shares, highlighting the enduring impact that their friendship had on both of their lives.
For those interested in exploring the depth of their relationship and the reflections of a truly remarkable career, Judi Dench’s memoir, *Is It Too Late to Make a Run for It?*, is currently available in bookstores across the UK. This heartfelt tribute to friendship and shared memories is certain to resonate with fans of both actresses and the world of theatre at large.
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