Cynthia Nixon and Christine Marinoni, who have been a couple for over two decades, recently shared insights into the relationship principles they uphold during a red carpet event. Speaking to PEOPLE at the premiere of season four of *The Gilded Age* in New York City on October 26, Nixon emphasised the importance of kindness in maintaining a strong and resilient relationship.
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The actress, known for her role in *And Just Like That*, revealed that while they do not adhere to a specific rule, both she and her wife strive to practice everyday kindness. “When we have our little snits or whatever, we always remind ourselves to be kind to each other,” she explained. Nixon believes that kindness is essential, particularly amidst the pressures and stresses of daily life.
Nixon’s journey with Marinoni began in 2001 when they first met. Marinoni, an education organiser and activist for LGBTQ rights, became a close friend before their relationship transitioned into romance in 2004, shortly after Nixon’s separation from her ex-husband, Danny Mozes. The couple’s bond deepened, leading to their engagement in 2009, followed by the birth of their son, Max, in 2011.
The couple’s story has not been without its challenges. Previously, Marinoni experienced multiple miscarriages before having their son, and in a 2018 interview with *The New York Times*, she expressed her initial disbelief at the prospect of motherhood. “I always just pictured myself like a little worker bee my entire life,” she reflected, describing Max as an exquisite gift.
Their marriage took place in 2012, shortly after New York state legalised same-sex marriage. Although their relationship has always rested on a solid foundation, Nixon has shared that Marinoni had concerns about dating her at the outset. Nixon, who had not previously dated women, faced scrutiny as they began their romance. Marinoni was apprehensive about how this change might impact Nixon’s career and personal identity.
In a 2017 interview with *Radio Times*, Nixon recounted how Marinoni waited for her to experience a crisis regarding their relationship. It wasn’t until Marinoni met Nixon’s mother that her worries began to dissipate. This affirmation of family acceptance reinforced their commitment to one another.
Despite being in the public eye, Nixon has also faced challenges regarding the openness of her relationship. In a 2015 interview with *The Advocate*, she recalled how her former publicist advised her to keep her personal life private, discouraging her from publicly acknowledging their romance. This created tension, especially as they faced media attention while spending time in public with their children. Ultimately, Nixon’s manager connected her with an openly gay publicist, which encouraged her to publicly confirm the relationship. “It was so fantastic,” Nixon remarked about the decision to openly embrace her identity.
Nixon currently stars in the fourth season of *The Gilded Age*, portraying the character Ada, a kind-hearted widow. The show is set to premiere on November 1, and fans are excited to see her return to the screen.
In reflecting on their lasting partnership, Nixon’s comments underline the core of her and Marinoni’s successful relationship. They have cultivated a bond that thrives on mutual respect and kindness, which has been pivotal in navigating the challenges that come with life as a public figure.
As they continue to share their lives together, Nixon and Marinoni serve as a reminder of the power of love and compassion in maintaining personal relationships, a sentiment that resonates strongly in today’s often tumultuous world.