Khadijah Haqq has taken legal action against her estranged husband, Bobby McCray, seeking both spousal and child support following their separation. The couple, who were married for 13 years and share three children—Christian, 15, Celine, 12, and Kapri, 5—are now embroiled in a legal dispute over financial obligations.
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In court documents reviewed by PEOPLE, Haqq, 43, requests a monthly spousal support payment of £2,033, as well as a lump sum of £100,000 earmarked for legal expenses. She has filed for the court to determine an appropriate child support amount that McCray, 45, should contribute for their children.

Haqq asserts that her family has historically depended on McCray’s income. While she has earned “minimal residuals” from her work in the entertainment sector, it has not been enough to sustain their previous living standards. Describing her current financial situation, she notes that since their split, she has struggled to make ends meet and has often relied on credit cards to cover essential expenses.

The court filing paints a picture of their former lifestyle, highlighting that they resided in a family home, owned two cars, and typically enjoyed annual vacations, whether domestic or international. Furthermore, their children attended private schools and participated in various extracurricular activities, necessitating substantial financial investment from their parents.
Haqq notes a stark contrast between their past lifestyle and her current circumstances, claiming that the family had previously maintained a debt-free existence, a status she is unable to retain without financial support from McCray. “I have been primarily responsible for the children’s care,” she emphasises, adding that McCray’s inconsistent presence in California limits his involvement in their children’s lives.
The former reality TV star expresses her challenges in seeking employment, arguing that her role as a full-time parent leaves her with little time to explore job opportunities. Haqq acknowledges that she has had to borrow funds from friends and family just to stay afloat. “For example, my sister deposited approximately £8,000 into my bank account, and I have also borrowed from friends,” she states. She expresses her gratitude for their assistance, promising to repay these loans in the future.
Haqq contends that McCray is fully capable of meeting his own financial obligations while also providing for her and their children. She highlights his income derived from NFL disability payments and annuities, as well as derivative Social Security payments meant to benefit their children. However, she claims that she has not received the respective payments for their youngest child, which she believes constitutes a failure to fulfil his parental duties.
The couple’s split became public in August 2024 when McCray filed for divorce, almost a year after they initially announced their separation. With their marriage now formally dissolved, the future of their financial arrangements and the welfare of their children hangs in the balance, pending the court’s decision on Haqq’s requests.
As the situation unfolds, both parties will likely seek to navigate the complexities of child support and spousal maintenance amidst their newly independent lives. Legal representatives for both Haqq and McCray have not yet responded to requests for commentary, leaving the public awaiting further developments in this high-profile case.
The impact of the divorce on the couple’s three children remains a critical concern, and Haqq’s bid for support underscores the pressing need for financial stability in the wake of her marital breakdown. The outcome of this legal dispute will not only affect the financial futures of both parents but, more importantly, the wellbeing of their children as they adjust to life in a co-parenting arrangement.
