During a recent episode of the *Go with Elmo* podcast, drummer Ilan Rubin shared a peculiar incident involving musician Tom DeLonge that allegedly unfolded at his wedding. The story has sparked considerable interest, particularly among those fascinated by UFOs and DeLonge’s ongoing dedication to the subject.
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Rubin recounted the event from his wedding, which took place in 2020, where he revealed that DeLonge apparently showcased a photo of a “dead alien” to fellow musician Trent Reznor. This surprising revelation has drawn attention, considering DeLonge’s well-documented interest in extraterrestrial life and unidentified flying objects (UFOs).

In the podcast aired on 4 April, Rubin, 37, reminisced about the moment that followed the wedding ceremony. As he and his wife briefly retreated to their suite, they later joined the reception where he spotted DeLonge, 50, and Reznor, 60. Rubin described DeLonge as being quite tall, standing at 6’4″, which contrasted sharply with Reznor’s height of 5’7″.
Intrigued by what he perceived as a typical revelation from DeLonge, Rubin approached the duo, only to find that DeLonge had been showing Reznor some peculiar content on his phone. Rubin recalled thinking, “What is he possibly showing him right now?” He revealed that DeLonge has a habit of sharing his extensive knowledge of space and UFO phenomena with friends.
After exchanging greetings, Rubin asked Reznor about the contents of DeLonge’s phone. It was then that Reznor allegedly responded by saying, “That dude just showed me a dead alien.” Rubin reflected on the oddity of the moment, noting that “nobody else could conduct themselves in that way, and it be normal.” He characterised DeLonge as “unapologetically himself,” an attitude he finds infectious and memorable.
DeLonge’s fascination with UFOs is not new; in 2015, he left the pop-punk band Blink-182 to found To the Stars Academy, an organisation dedicated to promoting transparency around UFOs and extraterrestrial life. Through this initiative, he aims to provide the public with a deeper understanding of aerial phenomena that has often been shrouded in secrecy.
In addition to running the academy, DeLonge took on the role of executive producer for the six-part docuseries *Unidentified: Inside America’s UFO Investigation*, which explores unexplained aerial encounters alongside former CIA and Department of Defense members. DeLonge has often spoken of the need for transparency surrounding the issue, emphasising that much of the relevant material had previously been classified for national security reasons.
In a 2017 interview with *PEOPLE*, DeLonge elaborated on his mission, stating, “Thanks to the partners at To The Stars Academy, we now have a vehicle to transition a lot of those learnings over to the public for the first time.” He underscored the importance of providing tangible evidence to those who may be sceptical about the existence of extraterrestrial life.
Significantly, in a 2019 development, the United States Navy acknowledged that videos shared by DeLonge contained instances of “unexplained aerial phenomena,” further validating his efforts to engage the public in discussions regarding UFOs.
The recollection of a supposed encounter involving a “dead alien” at a wedding illustrates the unique intersection of pop culture and the ongoing intrigue surrounding extraterrestrial life. For Tom DeLonge, this fusion has become a defining aspect of both his personal and professional identity, generating considerable attention from fans and skeptics alike.
As the conversation around UFOs and government acknowledgment of their existence gains momentum, incidents like the one shared by Rubin continue to add layers to the ongoing narrative, highlighting both the fascination and the scepticism that surrounds the topic. DeLonge remains a pivotal figure in this discourse, with his passion for revealing the unknown continuing to influence public perception of one of humanity’s most enduring questions: Are we alone in the universe?
