Todd Fisher recently hosted a live podcast in honour of the late Debbie Reynolds, who would have celebrated her 94th birthday this year. During the episode, he opened up about his memories of his mother’s second husband, Harry Karl, reflecting on the impact Karl had on both his life and the lives of his sister, Carrie Fisher, and their mother.
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Reynolds and Karl were married from 1960 until their divorce in 1973. Although Todd spoke fondly of Karl, describing him as a loving person, he acknowledged the complexities of their relationship, particularly how Karl’s flaws affected the family. He recounted, “He was very loving to Carrie and I,” which paints a picture of a man who had genuine affection for Reynolds’ children, despite his personal failings.

Karl’s struggles with gambling and infidelity ultimately led to the breakdown of his marriage with Reynolds, causing significant distress for both Todd and Carrie. Todd reflected on a moment at Trader Vics, recalling how Karl had optimistically asked if he and Reynolds would ever reconcile. In a moment of candour, Todd remembered thinking, “‘Do you have any idea the wake of destruction that you have leveled against all of us?’” It was clear to him even then that reconciliation was improbable.
The impact of Karl’s death in 1982 was significant, particularly as Todd became the one to deliver the news to Reynolds. Describing the moment, he indicated that his mother’s reaction was surprisingly subdued. “She had no sort of emotion about it,” Todd explained, attributing her response to a remarkable capacity for forgiveness that characterised Reynolds throughout her life. Nonetheless, he recognised that she harboured lingering dissatisfaction over Karl’s actions.
Compounding the emotional challenges faced by the family was the bitter reality of Karl’s lifestyle choices, which Todd witnessed first-hand. He noted the presence of individuals who later turned out to be sex workers, coming to Karl’s home—an enduring image that left a profound impression on him as a child. “That’s disturbing,” he said, illustrating the complexity of dealing with such betrayal as a young boy.
Carrie Fisher’s fury towards Karl’s behaviour was evident, as Todd recounted the intense feelings his sister harboured. He remembered Carrie only showing vulnerability when they visited Karl’s grave many years later, indicating a deep-rooted pain that lingered long after Karl’s passing. The emotional legacy of their father’s infidelity cast a long shadow over Reynolds and her children.
Reflecting on the tumultuous divorce process, Todd expressed disillusionment with his stepfather. He described how during settlement discussions, he witnessed Karl trying to leverage emotional manipulation to obtain ongoing financial support from Reynolds, seemingly oblivious to the toll his actions had taken on the family. This dynamic prompted Todd to lose all respect for Karl, whose demands felt egregious given the circumstances.
The complexity of relationships within this family was heightened by Todd’s comparisons between Karl and Reynolds’ first husband, Eddie Fisher. He pointed out the differences in their relationships, with Fisher’s departure following the tragic death of Reynolds’ first husband, Mike Todd, being fuelled by young love and grief. In contrast, the nature of Karl’s issues revolved around addiction and deception, creating a darker narrative that weighed heavily on Todd.
Yet despite the turmoil that surrounded her relationships, Todd credited his mother for instilling a sense of security in him, creating a bond that he believed was unique. He underscored that his experiences shaped him into a supportive partner and father himself, a trait he attributes to Reynolds’ influence.
As Todd Fisher continues to honour the memory of his mother through his podcast, it is clear that the complexities of love, loss, and family dynamics shaped not only his existence but that of Carrie Fisher and their beloved mother, Debbie Reynolds.
