Jessi Draper has opened up about her tumultuous divorce from Jordan Ngatikaura during a revealing interview on the podcast ‘Call Her Daddy.’ The discussion, which aired on March 20, 2026, took place just a day after she found out through TMZ that Ngatikaura had officially filed for divorce. Known for her role in ‘The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,’ Draper did not hold back as she shared startling details regarding her marriage and the circumstances surrounding the split.
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In an emotional exchange with host Alex Cooper, Draper reflected on the moment she discovered the divorce filing. She explained that she received a message from a TMZ representative while in Los Angeles, informing her of the filing. Although Draper had initiated the decision to end the marriage, she felt blindsided by Ngatikaura’s actions, particularly as they had previously agreed to handle the situation together. “I did end it with him, so I knew it was coming, but we had made an agreement to do it together and he blindsided me,” she said. The revelation that they had not yet informed their children of the divorce added to her distress.
Throughout the interview, Draper made serious allegations against Ngatikaura, including accusations of emotional abuse and infidelity. She claimed to possess “proof” that Ngatikaura had engaged with an escort service while they were still married, suggesting he had attempted to meet up with them before their marriage became public. Draper indicated that this behaviour occurred shortly before she was seen kissing another reality star, underscoring a pattern of what she described as “shady” conduct.
In addition to these claims, Draper alleged that Ngatikaura had taken invasive measures to monitor her activities. She stated that he had hacked her Instagram account and created fake profiles to spy on her. She recounted a troubling incident involving reality star Harry Jowsey, where Ngatikaura allegedly accused her of cheating based on innocent messages exchanged between the two, contributing to an already fraught atmosphere within the marriage.
Draper also characterised Ngatikaura’s behaviour as emotionally abusive, claiming that throughout their relationship, he frequently berated her. She noted that criticism was the predominant feature of their interactions, with compliments being scarce. “It’s like 90% criticism and 10% compliments,” she explained, detailing how Ngatikaura would reflect negative opinions on various aspects of her life, including her parenting and professional choices.
During the conversation, Draper described feeling blackmailed by Ngatikaura, who would threaten to release private messages during conflicts. The emotional toll of this manipulation prompted Draper to reconsider their relationship, ultimately leading to her decision to leave him. She recounted an instance filled with tension where Ngatikaura filmed her during an argument, stating, “What am I doing? I am chasing around my husband trying to get his phone so he doesn’t blackmail me. This is not healthy.”
In a twist related to their financial arrangements, Draper confirmed that her prenuptial agreement remains valid, despite prior concerns regarding its execution. Initially worried that a missing witness signature could jeopardise the document’s legitimacy, she clarified that legal advice had reassured her that it would hold up in court. However, she anticipates that child support and potential alimony will require negotiation.
Despite the heart-wrenching nature of her revelations, Draper conveyed a sense of relief regarding certain aspects of the divorce. She emphasised that, according to her lawyers, her businesses are secure and cannot be claimed by Ngatikaura. “I’m happy about that,” she said, although she acknowledged that resolving other financial matters may still bring challenges.
While Ngatikaura has yet to publicly respond to Draper’s allegations, it is clear that both individuals are navigating a difficult path as they disentangle their lives following their separation. Draper’s candidness sheds light not only on her personal struggles but also on the broader dynamics that can occur in relationships, especially under the spotlight of reality television. As their divorce proceedings unfold, it remains to be seen how these claims will impact both parties and the children they continue to co-parent.