Charles Spencer, the younger brother of Princess Diana, has recently opened up about his relationships with his nephews, Prince William and Prince Harry, in a candid interview with journalist Katie Couric. This discussion comes in conjunction with the release of his new memoir, **Swan Song: Diana, My Sister**, in which he reflects on his late sister’s life and legacy.
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In the conversation, which aired on Couric’s podcast, **Next Question With Katie Couric**, Lord Spencer outlined his approach to his relationship with the two princes, both of whom are now in their forties. He admitted that since their mother’s tragic death, he has adopted a somewhat detached stance, viewing himself as “an elderly uncle” who stands ready to offer support if required, but refrains from intruding on their lives. “I’ve always taken the view since Diana died that I’m there if needed, and I’m not if not,” he remarked.
Interestingly, Spencer revealed that he is in closer contact with Harry, the younger of the two brothers, who stepped back from royal duties in 2020. Reflecting on this connection, he stated, “I’m not on anyone’s side, but I think there are occasions when Harry may need me more.” This acknowledgement does not imply an imbalance in his affections; rather, he maintains that he is simply their mother’s brother and offers to be a confidant when required.
During the discussion, Spencer drew parallels between the treatment both Harry and Diana received from the media and the royal institution. He expressed his concern about the enduring influence of the British royal family, stating, “I think even people in Britain have no idea how powerful the royal family remain.” According to Spencer, both Diana and Harry faced considerable scrutiny and pressure, highlighting that “Harry gets it every day, and it’s not okay.”
Spencer also addressed Harry’s recent return to the UK with his wife, Meghan Markle, and their two children, Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet. While Spencer confessed he had not been given advance notice of their move, he expressed understanding of Harry’s desire for his children to experience British culture. “It made sense… when two people marry from different cultures, you don’t want your culture forgotten, really,” he remarked.
In a previous interview with **PEOPLE**, Spencer elaborated on how he informed his nephews and their aunts about the memoir. He confirmed that he told all four of them—William, Harry, and their aunts, Lady Jane and Lady Sarah—simultaneously. “I told them at the same time… and I can say that Harry is completely fine about it,” he shared. Notably, Spencer mentioned that Harry expressed a desire to ensure there was nothing “embarrassing” included in the book.
In response to this concern, Spencer reassured the princes that while they would be featured in the memoir, the focus was on their childhood and the exceptional relationship they had with their mother, rather than compromising their privacy in any way. “I think it’s natural that people so in the public eye are concerned how they will come across in the book,” he acknowledged.
As he navigates his role as a family member to two high-profile figures, Charles Spencer remains a figure of familial support, while maintaining a respectful distance. His reflections on their relationship, contrasted with his own experiences of loss, illustrate a deeply personal yet poignant connection to the royal family’s ongoing narrative.
In conclusion, as Charles Spencer shares his memories and perspectives on Princess Diana and her sons, his insights resonate with those who continue to grapple with the legacy left by the late princess. While the media landscape may continue to evolve, the ties of family remain a constant, offering a reminder of the human connections that endure amidst public scrutiny.