Selena Gomez, the star of the hit series ‘Only Murders in the Building’, recently shared her hopes of starting a family in a heartfelt post on her Instagram Stories. The 34-year-old actress candidly expressed her aspirations after posting a touching image of herself alongside a newborn baby. Gomez, who is married to esteemed record producer Benny Blanco, captioned the photo with a simple but profound sentiment: “one day.. 🥹💭”.
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Gomez has been vocal about her desire to become a mother and raise children with Blanco, who is 38. Last October, she celebrated her role in the sequel series ‘Wizards Beyond Waverly Place’ by posting about her character Alex Russo, who has become a parent. In her story, she wrote, “Alex Russo is a mommy 🥹. Hopefully one day that’ll be me,” reflecting on her hopes of motherhood.
In a March interview on the Jay Shetty Podcast, both Gomez and Blanco discussed their eagerness to start a family. They tied the knot on September 27, 2023, in a picturesque ceremony in Montecito, California. During their conversation, Gomez remarked on her affinity for children, stating, “I love making [children] laugh; they’re just so sweet. So absolutely, when that day comes, I’m so excited for it.” Blanco supported her sentiments by observing that Gomez has a natural ability to connect with kids, often engaging them in meaningful conversations.

The couple’s journey towards parenthood has not been without its challenges, as Gomez has faced medical issues that complicate her ability to carry a child. In a candid October interview with Vanity Fair, she disclosed, “I unfortunately can’t carry my own children.” Gomez explained that she has medical complications that could pose risks to both her life and the life of a baby. She reflected on this reality as something she “had to grieve” over time.
Complications from her lupus diagnosis, which she has openly discussed since being diagnosed in 2015, are among the medical concerns Gomez faces. Furthermore, she revealed during an April 2020 episode of Miley Cyrus’s Instagram Live show ‘Bright Minded’ that she also deals with bipolar disorder. Despite these challenges, Gomez expressed optimism about her future as a mother, acknowledging that surrogacy and adoption are viable options for her.
“I’m in a much better place with that,” she said, emphasising her gratitude towards those who offer surrogacy or adoption. “It made me really thankful for the other outlets for people who are dying to be moms. I’m one of those people,” she added with heartfelt enthusiasm.
While the journey ahead may differ from traditional avenues, Gomez remains determined and hopeful. “I’m excited for what that journey will look like, but it’ll look a little different. At the end of the day, I don’t care. It’ll be mine. It’ll be my baby,” she declared, underscoring her commitment to motherhood.
With her talents extending beyond acting and music, and her profound connection with children evidenced through social media and personal interactions, Gomez is no stranger to the formative role she plays in young lives. This desire to nurture and connect continues to shine through in her public persona, making her an inspirational figure to many.
As Gomez and Blanco look toward the future, fans and followers alike are cheering them on, supporting their beautiful aspiration of building a family together. The couple’s candid discussions about the realities of parenthood have resonated with many, further solidifying Gomez’s status not just as a beloved celebrity, but as someone who is relatable and grounded in her family values. As they embark on this hopeful journey of motherhood, it is clear that Gomez is ready to embrace whatever form her family may take.
