Octavia Spencer Says There’s ‘Nothing Better Than Loving the Skin You’re in’ at 56 (Exclusive)

**Octavia Spencer and Hannah Waddingham Embrace Age and Friendship in New Series ‘Ride or Die’**

Octavia Spencer and Hannah Waddingham, both accomplished actresses, are spotlighting the importance of embracing one’s true self and celebrating female friendships in their latest project, the action-comedy series ‘Ride or Die’, now streaming on Prime Video. As both women step into their roles, they bring a refreshing honesty about the experiences of women in their 50s and 40s, showcasing both strength and vulnerability.

Spencer, 56, shared her thoughts during a recent interview, emphasising that there is “nothing better” than being comfortable in one’s own skin. This sentiment is a central theme of ‘Ride or Die’, which explores self-acceptance at various life stages. Waddingham’s character, Judith Burton, introduces this theme right from the outset when she is dismissed as a “woman of a certain age” by a younger male character. Waddingham, 51, noted how significant this moment was for her: “That was actually the first scene I shot in the series,” she recalled, adding that the moment immediately resonated with her personal experiences.

Waddingham is committed to portraying women authentically, showing their complexities, which includes insecurities and personal triumphs. She reflected on the scene featuring Judith’s reaction to the dismissive comment, stating, “What’s clever is that this young man thinks he’s being charming with his words, not recognising the potential harm in them.” She admires how the narrative allows Judith to exhibit her feelings, presenting a realistic view of how such remarks can affect a person.

Spencer chimed in, explaining that the phrase “a woman of a certain age” carries weight for those who have lived through the realities of getting older. “Unless you are a woman of a certain age, you may not fully understand what it means to embrace that stage of life,” she said. By the series’ conclusion, both characters undergo significant development, ultimately embracing who they are, something Spencer believes is deeply fulfilling: “There’s nothing better than loving the skin you’re in and recognising the journey it took to get there.”

The actresses were drawn to ‘Ride or Die’ immediately after hearing Creator Tessa Coates’ pitch. Spencer humorously likened her enthusiasm to having “got married on the first date,” noting that she had been privy to numerous pitches but was captivated by this one. “It was the story of two highly capable women, balanced with action, comedy, and heartfelt moments,” she said. Waddingham echoed that sentiment, expressing her excitement at the prospect of working alongside Spencer, whom she admired greatly. Their chemistry was palpable from early on, establishing a genuine friendship that enhances the series.

Reflecting on the depth of their characters’ friendship, Spencer commented on the significance of sisterhood among women. As they navigate life’s ups and downs, these friendships grow in importance. “In our youth, we may chase romantic relationships, but as we mature, the value of our female friendships becomes even clearer,” she stated. This evolution is an essential aspect of ‘Ride or Die’, where Spencer and Waddingham’s characters share a bond that is both supportive and realistic, complete with moments of tension and conflict.

Waddingham was particularly keen on ensuring that the friendship between Judith and Spencer’s character, Debbie Claybourne, was grounded in authenticity. “We were clear that their interactions needed to involve calling each other out,” she remarked. “If everything is too sweet and perfect, it loses its believability. Including conflicts makes their eventual reconciliation more meaningful.”

Amidst the serious themes, the pair also revealed how much fun they had crafting the storyline, especially the concept of one’s best friend hiding a secret life as an assassin. Spencer joked that she would be curious to know whom her friend had targeted, while Waddingham mused on wanting to be included in any of her best friend’s escapades. This lighthearted banter illustrated their off-screen chemistry and camaraderie.

‘Ride or Die’ is not just a tale of action and comedy; it is a heartfelt exploration of women’s lives, identity, and the bonds of friendship. All eight episodes are currently available for streaming on Prime Video, promising audiences both laughter and sincere reflection on the complexities of growing older and nurturing friendships.