In a recent episode of her podcast, Dumb Blonde, Bunnie Xo opened up about the challenges she faced during her IVF journey alongside her estranged husband, Jelly Roll, shedding light on the emotional toll it took on their relationship. Her comments come following the public announcement of their divorce, which Jelly Roll filed for on May 18.
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Bunnie, 46, revealed that she and Jelly Roll, 41, began trying to conceive two years ago, a decision made amid his rising fame in the country music scene. However, the couple’s aspirations for a child became complicated due to Jelly’s low sperm count, which necessitated a rigorous regimen of hormones and medication. “He had to get on a bunch of hormones, which turned him into a nightmare to be around,” Bunnie explained.


The IVF process has been fraught with difficulties, as the couple experienced the heartache of losing four embryos. “We’ve had three transfers, but we lost the two twins we were expecting and then lost the other two,” Bunnie remarked, acknowledging the profound emotional strain these losses inflicted upon both her and Jelly. “It’s gut-wrenching,” she added.
Throughout her podcast, she spoke candidly about how the ordeal of IVF was “one of the loneliest, darkest journeys” she had ever encountered. Bunnie described the experience as being filled with “roadblocks,” which took a significant toll on her mental and emotional health. “It wrecked me emotionally, spiritually, physically,” she said, explaining how it transformed her into a shell of her former self.
Despite these challenges, Bunnie highlighted the resilience that both she and Jelly Roll displayed during their struggles. However, she also discussed the dynamics in their relationship, revealing that the shared trauma created a bond that, while deep, may have contributed to their eventual separation. “I kinda think Jay and I are trauma bonded. We’ve been through so much,” she reflected.
Bunnie expressed her gratitude for their history, suggesting that the unique experiences they shared would make it difficult for Jelly to have a similar bond with anyone else. “I don’t care what anybody says. He’s never going to live that with anybody else,” she stated, emphasizing the depth of their connection despite the ongoing difficulties.
In a previous interview, Bunnie mentioned that the IVF journey is among the most challenging experiences she has faced in her life, sharing that she often found herself angry at God for the hurdles that seemed to arise at every turn. “Every time we just are met with a roadblock,” she said, adding this relentless cycle increased tension within their relationship.
Jelly Roll also spoke about their IVF journey in a prior podcast episode, revealing that he too felt the weight of their struggles. The couple’s attempts to conceive have been further complicated by the fact that Jelly has two children from previous relationships—Bailee Ann, 18, and Noah Buddy, 9—bringing additional layers to their desires for a family.
As Bunnie continues to navigate this challenging period in her life, she remains hopeful for both her and Jelly’s future. “I hope he finds somebody who just understands him,” she concluded, embodying a sense of respect and care for her soon-to-be ex-husband despite their separation.
Bunnie Xo’s candid discussion provides a glimpse into the often overlooked challenges faced by those undergoing IVF, serving as a reminder of the emotional complexity involved in creating a family. As details of their personal lives emerge, it highlights the importance of support and understanding during such tumultuous times, both for individuals and couples alike.
