Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko, who found love on the 20th season of ‘The Bachelorette,’ are currently immersed in the exciting yet challenging process of planning their wedding. As the couple prepares for their big day, they have recently shared some insights into their nuptial plans during an appearance at The Knot’s 30th Anniversary Gala in New York City.
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Lawson, the former Bachelorette, confirmed that their wedding will take place this year, teasing, “The wait is finally over for many of you. We are in the trenches of wedding planning.” Her enthusiasm was palpable, revealing their commitment to creating a memorable experience.

Olubeko chimed in, giving hints about the entertainment for their wedding reception. He enthusiastically mentioned the DJ, noting, “That’s going to be insane,” before highlighting a specific song, “Swag Surfin’,” which promises to add a lively touch to their celebration. In a further glimpse into the couple’s musical preferences, Lawson expressed her desire for the song “WHERE IS MY HUSBAND!” by HYPATON and Raye to accompany her entrance.
Emphasising their personal touch, Lawson described the overall vibe of the wedding, saying it will “very much scream Charity and Dotun.” She explained that while there will certainly be elements of glamour, the focus will remain on intentional and meaningful details that reflect their relationship. The couple’s approach demonstrates their understanding of what matters most—creating an intimate atmosphere.
In discussing the logistics of wedding planning, Olubeko remarked on Lawson’s flair for design, stating, “True. I know that she’s very good with interior designing. It’s fun to see it come to life.” This collaboration appears to be a source of joy for both, as Lawson also praised Olubeko’s ability to handle stress, making him a crucial support during their planning journey. “I can come to him for help, and he’s just like, ‘I’ll take care of it,’” she shared.
Looking back, Lawson previously expressed that they weren’t in a rushed timeframe, as recent months had already been filled with logistics and planning. She stated, “We’re just taking it day by day. We want it to be super meaningful, and I think that’s really important, especially with how we met.” This thoughtful attitude underlines their commitment to ensuring their wedding day highlights their unique love story.
As they chart a path towards their wedding weekend, Lawson has hinted at an exciting approach to her wardrobe. In a January conversation, she revealed that she plans to change outfits at least three times during the festivities. Lawson is envisioning a blend of styles: a “timeless and traditional” look for the ceremony, followed by a “very romantic, flirty, festive and high-glam” ensemble for the reception.
Moreover, the couple intends to celebrate Olubeko’s heritage in a touching way. Lawson teased that they will don traditional attire for their official couple announcement, with outfits that will showcase their Nigerian roots. This cultural homage speaks to their respect for each other’s backgrounds and illustrates how they plan to weave personal elements into their celebrations.
As wedding planning continues, Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko serve as a reminder that love, creativity, and cultural appreciation can unite to create a truly unique and memorable celebration of their journey together. With the excitement building for their special day, many fans of ‘The Bachelorette’ will undoubtedly be looking forward to witnessing how this couple brings their vision to life.
