Fran Drescher, known for her iconic role in the beloved series ‘The Nanny’, recently opened up about her enduring friendship with her ex-husband, Peter Marc Jacobson. The former couple, who were married for 21 years before their divorce in 1999, have maintained a strong bond and continue to collaborate creatively. During an appearance at the New York City Ballet 2026 Spring Gala, Drescher reflected on their unique relationship and shared details about their recent trip to Europe.
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Drescher, now 68, attended the gala alongside Jacobson, who is also 68. The actress recounted their recent journey to Berlin, revealing that they had a wonderful time exploring the city. “It was my first time here,” she wrote on social media. “All my friends who have spent time in Berlin said we will love it and we do! Great restaurants, museums, shopping, city parks, and hotels.” Her enthusiasm for the city was evident, indicating a successful getaway for the pair.
Though Drescher and Jacobson divorced more than two decades ago, their friendship has only deepened over time. After parting ways, Jacobson came out as gay two years later, a revelation that did not diminish their strong connection. “He’s my gay ex-husband. He’s my best friend and he’s always around,” Drescher stated during the gala. Her quip about Jacobson occasionally being a “c***block” highlighted the light-hearted nature of their relationship, though it also raised questions about his presence during her travels.
When asked if Jacobson’s companionship affects her chances of meeting potential romantic interests, Drescher responded candidly. “That might have been, but for the most part, everybody knows who he is,” she remarked, illustrating the public familiarity surrounding their dynamic. Their enduring friendship is underscored by the creative projects they have produced together since their split, including ‘Happily Divorced’, a sitcom based on aspects of their post-marriage lives.
While travelling and working together, Drescher has expressed personal contentment with her current single status. In a prior interview for PEOPLE, she elaborated on the advantages of living independently, stating, “Selfishly, I don’t want to compromise… the more you live on your own, the less you need it if you happen to have a gay ex-husband.” This comment encapsulates her satisfaction in not feeling pressured to conform to traditional romantic expectations.
Drescher’s candidness extends to the challenge of finding someone who matches the depth of her long-standing relationship with Jacobson. “I have a gay ex-husband — live with it!” she declared, reflecting on the distinctive nature of their connection. Having known each other since they were teenagers, she remarked on their personal growth since their marriage, emphasising that they are both different individuals now compared to when they first wed.
Additionally, Drescher’s romantic history is worth noting. Following her divorce from Jacobson, she was briefly married to Dr. Shiva Ayyadurai in 2014 before they separated in 2016. This has likely influenced her current outlook on relationships and her closeness with Jacobson, who seems to fulfil many of her companionship needs without the complexities of a romantic partnership.
Drescher brought Jacobson as her guest to the New York City Ballet Gala, where they witnessed the world premiere of a special performance. The event celebrated the artistry of principal dancer Tiler Peck’s second commission for the ballet company, featuring a presentation of the classic ballet ‘Diamonds’ by George Balanchine. Such cultural outings appear to strengthen the bond between Drescher and Jacobson, allowing them to share in life’s experiences.
In an era when friendships and partnerships take many forms, Drescher and Jacobson serve as a notable example of how personal connections can evolve beyond traditional labels. Their ongoing companionship offers a refreshing perspective on love, acceptance, and creative collaboration, proving that familial bonds do not always adhere strictly to conventional definitions. As they continue to navigate life together, their story remains an inspiration for those exploring the many dimensions of friendship and partnership.