Kesha has recently shared a rather amusing anecdote about how her relationship came to an abrupt end, attributing the fallout to her attendance at a Taylor Swift after-party. The 39-year-old singer made this revelation while appearing on the podcast ‘Call Her Daddy’ with Alex Cooper, where she opened up about her dating history and current love status.
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During the interview, Kesha recounted how she had only been dumped once, hinting that it might be linked to the fact that her ex-partner seemed more interested in her celebrity lifestyle than in their relationship. Although she refrained from naming the individual, her narrative suggested he was more of a ‘star-f****r’ than a dedicated partner.
Determined to put her theory to the test, Kesha decided not to invite her then-boyfriend to Taylor Swift’s highly-publicised Eras Tour after-party. “I went to the Eras, like after the tour, there’s a little party,” Kesha explained. “And I was just like, I’m gonna pop in, take my girlfriend. I’m not gonna take the boyfriend. Just see how this goes.”
The decision turned out to be pivotal, as Kesha revealed that her ex ended their relationship shortly after. Reflecting on the event, she remarked, “We were together for a year and a half. That dude came over the next day, dropped the keys off, and that was it.” She expressed disbelief at how swiftly he moved on, quipping, “Have you no shame? Like, couldn’t you wait, like, 11 days or something?”
Kesha also commented on her ex’s dramatic reaction to her choice to attend the event without him. According to her, he threw a “tantrum” over being left out but added with humour, “I mean, if you’re gonna do it over anybody… Taylor [makes sense].” It seems Swift’s influence not only extends to her music but also manages to impact the personal lives of her friends.
Now focusing on her own life, Kesha disclosed that she is currently “very single” and has even embraced periods of celibacy. Discussing her personal growth, she stated, “I am celibate because I’m calling in a f***ing king. Like, it’s time for my king.” This admission highlights her shift in priorities as she seeks a more meaningful connection.
Her latest single, aptly titled “Red Flag,” reflects her journey toward recognising unhealthy relationship patterns. Kesha candidly admitted that she tends to be drawn to red flags in romantic partners, which has influenced her current decision to remain single. “This is why I’ve been mostly celibate. And I’m gonna remain very single on purpose, because we have worked on this trait of mine.”
The singer also took a moment to reflect on her past experiences, revealing that she had briefly tried out a polyamorous relationship. However, it turned out that this arrangement was not suited to her. “And it turns out it just was not for me,” she noted, indicating her desire for deeper connection in her romantic endeavours.
As Kesha navigates her personal growth and explores new dimensions in her relationships, her humorous yet insightful revelations provide a glimpse into the complex nature of modern dating. She continues to focus on what she wants in a partner while humouring her past experiences, making her journey both relatable and inspiring for many of her fans.