Kesha has recently shared insights into her life as a single woman and her unique approach to self-discovery in a candid interview on the podcast ‘Call Her Daddy.’ The 39-year-old pop sensation spoke about her current “very single” status, her experiences with celibacy, and her evolving relationship with pleasure.
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In a humorous exchange during the interview, Kesha declared, “I’m now mostly celibate, you know, except for when you’re in Italy.” This lighthearted comment caught host Alex Cooper slightly off guard, illustrating Kesha’s playful spirit. The singer explained how she is embracing the concept of self-pleasure, noting, “I actually masturbate to gratitude meditations. Don’t knock it till you try it.”
Kesha detailed her focus on personal growth and self-pleasure, particularly following her departure from her long-standing contract with Sony Music. The artist, known for hits like “TiK ToK,” expressed that her focus on pleasure has deepened as she champions her independence. “I keep coming back to pleasure,” she affirmed. “It is okay as a woman to feel pleasure in this world,” highlighting the importance of embracing one’s desires.

Moreover, she revealed her firm intention to connect with herself before seeking a partner who aligns with her aspirations. “This is why I’m celibate because I’m calling in a f—ing king. Like, it’s time for my king,” she stated emphatically. Kesha believes that one’s personal circumstances must align with their desires to manifest the right relationship in one’s life, remarking that “my p—y is manifesting with gratitude that my king is coming.”
The conversation also turned to her experiences with potential partners and the challenges of dating. When discussing her song “Red Flag”, Kesha admitted that she chooses to remain “very single on purpose.” Reflecting on her dating history, she remarked, “I’ve just dated people I have no business dating.” She recounted a particularly memorable encounter with a man who had a distinctive feature but was ultimately incompatible due to hygiene issues. “He just smelled kind of like a Subway sandwich that had been sitting in the back of your car for a couple of days,” she candidly revealed.
Kesha expressed her struggles with some of her past dating choices, acknowledging the pattern of gravitating towards less-than-ideal partners. “There are some stories I really want to tell, but I don’t want to call anybody out,” she added, emphasising her intent to respect privacy while still sharing relatable experiences.
To further illustrate her eclectic personality, Kesha described herself as “secretly a hippie,” but noted, “there’s a line” when it comes to her dating preferences. This blend of playfulness and seriousness characterises her approach to love and self-discovery, making her reflections on these topics both engaging and thought-provoking.
As she gears up for the release of her new single “Origami” on Friday, May 8, Kesha’s journey of self-exploration and the celebration of her single life seems to resonate with many. Her open discussion about pleasure, celibacy, and personal standards in relationships shines a light on modern approaches to self-love and dating.
Kesha’s candid observations remind us that navigating relationships, whether romantic or otherwise, is a personal journey that requires self-awareness and honesty. As she continues to develop her artistry and share her story, it is clear that Kesha is fully embracing the pleasures and challenges of life, paving the way for a deeper connection with herself and, hopefully in the future, the partner she envisions.
