Damon Wayans Sr., best known for his iconic role in the sketch comedy show **In Living Color**, has opened up about his family life, including the career paths of his children. Having welcomed his first child at the age of 20, Wayans Sr. recognised the need for his son, Damon Wayans Jr., to support his growing family through a career in comedy.
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In an interview with PEOPLE, Wayans Sr. described his eldest son as special, recalling how Damon Jr. was affectionately nicknamed “pancakes” for being universally loved. “He’s just a good dude on top of that,” he said, shedding light on Damon Jr.’s down-to-earth personality, characterised by his simple style of jeans, sneakers, and T-shirts.
The 65-year-old actor helped steer his son towards comedy at a young age, emphasising that he couldn’t provide for his grandchildren. He candidly told Damon Jr., “I’m not supporting your kids, so you need to learn the family business.” Wayans Sr. believes this practical advice has shaped his son’s aspirations in the entertainment industry.
Michael Wayans, Wayans Sr.’s second son, has also shown considerable talent, though he prefers to remain behind the scenes rather than perform. His father praised Michael’s capabilities, stating he is “incredibly talented,” even suggesting that he possesses greater natural ability than his brother. However, Michael has a different approach to his career, opting to express his creativity through writing. He is currently involved in the sitcom **Poppa’s House**, which features both his father and older brother.
Despite Michael’s impressive intellect, which he displayed in childhood by carrying around books on quantum theory, he grapples with the pressures of performing. His father elaborated on this, noting that Michael views stand-up comedy as daunting. “His Achilles heel is stand-up comedy. He’s scared to death to do it,” explained Wayans Sr. “You’re only as good as your last joke, and it’s a process that can’t be cheated.”
Damon Wayans Sr. shares two daughters, Cara and Kyla, along with his two sons, with ex-wife Lisa Thorner, to whom he was married from 1984 until their divorce in 2000. Reflecting on his children’s varying career choices, it is evident that Wayans Sr. has been a supportive father, encouraging them to explore their talents while staying true to themselves.
The actor also reminisced about personal relationships formed during his illustrious career, particularly his friendship with comedian Eddie Murphy. According to Wayans Sr., family dynamics were a source of admiration for Murphy. He recounted memories of boat rides with his family, and how Murphy expressed a longing for such closeness. “Eddie would always take time to come over and say, ‘Man, I want what you’ve got. This is so beautiful,’” he recalled fondly, indicating how they shared family values.
Now with a family of his own, Murphy has ten children, a fact that delights Wayans Sr., who noted that happiness often lies not in fame, but in family connections. “I know that it’s something he always wanted, so I’m so happy for him that he actually has peace,” he stated, hinting at a deeper understanding of what truly matters in life amidst the chaos of stardom.
The camaraderie developed during Wayans Sr.’s time on **In Living Color** remains a source of joy and connection for him. He expressed that his relationships with castmates like David Alan Grier and Jim Carrey are akin to familial bonds. “It’s the same thing with Jim Carey. True family is when we’re in a room together, we joke,” he remarked.
In addition to sharing insights on family and friendships, Wayans Sr. is actively involved in raising awareness about diabetes through a partnership with Genentech and Diatribe. He is launching the ‘All Eyes on DME’ campaign, which aims to educate the public about the condition. With his characteristic humour, he quipped about his plans to reconnect with Carrey by teasing him about his appearance, demonstrating that their friendship allows for levity even in serious settings.
Wayans Sr.’s reflections not only highlight a deep commitment to family and friendship but also illustrate the importance of legacy in the entertainment world. As he continues to influence aspiring performers in comedy, his steadfast values and the connections he cherishes remain at the forefront of his life.