Brittany Cartwright, known for her role in the reality TV show “The Valley,” revealed an unexpected and rather chaotic parenting experience during a recent appearance on the podcast “Are You Okay?”. The 37-year-old shared the challenging moments of co-sleeping with her five-year-old son, Cruz, who has a diagnosis of autism.
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In a preview clip released by E! News leading up to the podcast episode on April 30, the star recounted a particularly alarming wake-up call. Cartwright described waking up to an unpleasant surprise after Cruz smeared faeces across her face while they were both asleep. “I feel like a bunch of parents will understand this, especially with my son being non-verbal,” she stated.

According to Cartwright, the incident occurred at approximately 3 AM. Initially taken aback by the strange smell, she soon realised the source of her alarm was Cruz’s messy situation. “I woke up, and I could just smell something,” she shared, reflecting on her confused state before piecing together what had transpired.
As the story unfolded, she detailed the frantic response that ensued. After discovering the faeces on Cruz’s hands and the sheets, Cartwright quickly whisked him off to the bathtub, followed by her own shower to clean up. “Just a wild way to wake up,” she commented, illustrating the often unpredictable nature of parenting a child with special needs.
This incident was not unique for Cartwright, who also recounted a previous event when Cruz had woken her up with a nosebleed, rubbing the blood on her face as a way to get her attention. “He’s like, ‘Mom, wake up,’ but he’s letting me know why by putting it on my face,” she explained, highlighting the unique methods her son employs to communicate.
Cartwright has previously discussed Cruz’s diagnosis, noting that he was officially diagnosed with autism at the age of three. She explained that while he was developing typical early milestones—crawling and walking ahead of most children—his speech began regressing around the age of two. “He stopped talking almost completely,” said Cartwright, reflecting on the steep learning curve parents can face when navigating the complexities of autism.
Despite the communication challenges Cruz faces, Cartwright expressed pride in her son’s affectionate nature. While he may not often use words, she stated that Cruz shows his love for her in numerous ways every day. “It can be difficult because I’ve never heard him say ‘I love you,’ but he is so loving,” she said, underscoring the emotional bond they share.
Throughout her experiences, Cartwright has been open about the ups and downs of her parenting journey. She hopes to raise awareness about the challenges faced by children on the autism spectrum while sharing her own story with other parents who may face similar trials. Her candidness offers a much-needed glimpse into the reality of parenting a child who is non-verbal.
As the podcast continues to air, it provides a platform for parents like Cartwright to discuss their struggles and share coping strategies with a broader audience. While the incidents she describes may resonate as humorous in retrospect, they also reflect the profound challenges inherent in parenting children with special needs. Cartwright serves as a reminder that even the most complicated situations can lead to moments of connection and understanding, helping both parents and children grow together.
