In a recent conversation at the book launch party for Sheinelle Jones’ latest work, *Through Mom’s Eyes*, Jenna Bush Hager and Hoda Kotb unveiled the profound lessons they have gained from their experiences as mothers. The event, held in New York City, offered an insightful glimpse into the lives of these prominent figures, both of whom have balanced their successful careers with the challenges and joys of parenthood.
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Jenna Bush Hager, co-host of *Today with Jenna and Sheinelle*, reflected on her journey as a parent to her three children, daughters Mila (13) and Poppy (10), and son Hal (6), with her husband Henry Hager. According to Bush Hager, the most significant realisation she has encountered is the overwhelming capacity to love that parenthood elicits. “The biggest lesson I’ve learned from being a mother is how big your heart can feel and how much you can love,” she remarked during the discussion with PEOPLE magazine. Hager expressed that there is truly no love that compares to that of a parent for their children.

Hoda Kotb, who has been a respected broadcaster for years, also shared her insights into motherhood. She is a mother to two daughters, Haley Joy (9) and Hope Catherine (7), whom she shares with her ex-fiancé Joel Schiffman. Kotb echoed Bush Hager’s sentiments and further added that motherhood has taught her the reality that “dreams do come true.” Reflecting on her family life, Kotb remarked, “If you really want something like that in your life, you can have it—no matter your age, no matter the time.” For her, the most significant achievements in life now come from her role as a mother, with her daughters being the core of her heart’s desires.
Both women have been open about their maternal journeys, shedding light on both the fulfilling and challenging aspects of raising children. Bush Hager candidly admitted that managing family logistics can prove to be quite difficult as her brood has grown. Nonetheless, she remains committed to ensuring that each of her children feels cherished and loved. In an amusing confession, she noted that, at times, she finds herself hiding in the pantry to enjoy a quick snack, highlighting the humour that often accompanies the chaos of parenting.
In contrast, Kotb has experienced a notable shift in her routine since announcing her departure from the *Today* show in September 2024. This transition has allowed her to embrace a more relaxed lifestyle, a change she welcomed wholeheartedly. At the QVC Holiday House event last November, Kotb explained the newfound pace of her life: “It’s been super fun…Everything’s in slow motion now.” She elaborated that her interactions with her children have also changed dramatically, moving away from a hectic schedule to more leisurely, cherished moments together.
Gone are the days of rushing the children to meet deadlines. “I used to be like, ‘Shoes off. OK, come on, we’re late,’” Kotb recalled. Now, she appreciates the quiet moments spent simply sitting and “breathing together” with her daughters. This slower rhythm has brought her an unexpected sense of joy and fulfilment.
As both women navigate their roles as mothers, they have developed a supportive friendship through shared experiences. This bond is evident during their conversations, where they often indulge in laughter about the trials and tribulations of parenting, showcasing the camaraderie that has grown from their time spent together in the media spotlight.
The revelations from Bush Hager and Kotb at the event serve as a reminder to many parents. Young and seasoned alike can relate to the ups and downs of parenthood, finding reassurance in the knowledge that the universal themes of love, patience, and resilience remain constant. Their openness about both the enjoyment and the struggle of balancing family life with professional commitments resonates deeply with many.
In an age where the pressures of life can easily overwhelm, the reflections shared by Bush Hager and Kotb affirm the importance of nurturing both personal and familial connections. As they continue to share their journeys, they inspire others to embrace the beauty of everyday moments, an underlying theme that can be incredibly comforting to parents navigating similar paths. Through their honest storytelling, they encourage others to not only relish in the triumphs of motherhood but also find humour in its inevitable challenges.
