“Southern Hospitality”’s Maddi Reese Reflects on Getting Sober as a Teen: ‘I Thought I Needed Alcohol to Feel Confident’

Maddi Reese, a star of the popular reality series “Southern Hospitality,” has reached a significant milestone in her life, celebrating 12 years of sobriety. The 28-year-old has publicly shared her struggles with addiction, which began nearly as soon as she entered her teenage years. Her candid reflections aim to inspire others and uphold her own sense of accountability.

In a recent appearance on the “More Life with Carl Radke” podcast, Reese recounted her initial encounters with alcohol during her childhood, disclosing that she began drinking at just 12 years old while participating in travel softball. She revealed that her teenage years were plagued by severe depression and anxiety, and despite seeking help through therapy and medication, she felt overwhelmed. Reaching for alcohol became a means to momentarily escape her mental health challenges, as she described how drinking made her feel more confident and attractive.

Reese explained the allure of binge drinking during her early teenage years, stating, “When I drank, I thought I was cooler, funnier, [and] hotter. I thought I needed alcohol or substances to feel better about myself.” These feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt pushed her further into addiction until she made several attempts to get sober. At the age of 16, after multiple failed attempts, she checked into rehabilitation.

The Southern Hospitality star articulated that her journey towards sobriety is not only about recovery but also serves as a tool for maintaining accountability. In her own words, she has chosen to be open about her experiences, stating, “I’m super open about it because I want that accountability. I know where that [path] leads me.” This commitment to transparency is crucial for her ongoing recovery.

Carl Radke, a fellow Bravo star and podcast host, praised Reese for her honesty in discussing such a personal topic. He acknowledged the struggles women face when confronting addiction, particularly within the reality television circuit, where stigma often looms large. Radke remarked, “It’s hard to be open about it, especially in the Bravo world, because there’s the shame and the guilt.” He expressed admiration for Reese’s strength in navigating these pressures, indicating that sharing her journey might inspire others grappling with similar issues.

Apart from her sobriety journey, Reese is also navigating a blossoming relationship with her co-star, Joe Bradley. The pair began dating in 2024 after a long-standing friendship, and their relationship is prominently featured on “Southern Hospitality.” While Reese is hopeful about the stability of their romance, she has openly discussed the pressures that accompany living in the public eye. Questions about marriage and children have raised concerns about the dynamics of their relationship.

“I feel like there’s this reality TV curse,” she noted, candidly reflecting on the pressures they face as a couple. She expressed that while she appreciates the support from fans, it can sometimes create unreasonable expectations and stress for their relationship.

Reese also took a moment to address Bradley’s own struggles with sobriety, particularly how it has affected their relationship. Recent episodes have highlighted their conflicts over his drinking habits, leading Radke to contact Bradley directly. According to Radke, Bradley is currently on a “break” from substances. This decision, Reese believes, needs to originate from Bradley himself, even though she hopes he will ultimately choose sobriety.

“He’s doing what’s best for him,” Radke commented, noting that both individuals in a relationship can benefit from supporting one another’s journeys towards sobriety. Reese is determined to remain supportive while respecting his autonomy.

For those grappling with substance abuse issues or facing addiction challenges, there is help available. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) provides resources and assistance. For immediate support, individuals are urged to reach out to the SAMHSA helpline at 1-800-662-HELP.

As Maddi Reese continues to foster her sobriety and build her relationships in the public eye, she stands as a testament to the power of vulnerability and resilience. Her story may encourage others to embrace sobriety while navigating the complicated landscape of reality television.