Bunnie Xo Explains Why She Doesn’t Have a Relationship with Her 2 Sisters: ‘Family Isn’t Always Blood’

Bunnie Xo, known off-air as Alisa DeFord, has candidly expressed her unwillingness to rekindle relations with her estranged sisters during a recent episode of her podcast, *Dumb Blonde*. The 46-year-old, who is married to musician Jelly Roll, has shared her complex familial background in her memoir, *Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic*, which was published in February.

In a straightforward response to a question about the possibility of mending her relationship with her sisters, Bunnie stated emphatically, “no.” She elaborated that her attempts to forge a connection had been met with disappointment and negativity. “I have tried numerous times,” she lamented, referring back to discussions from previous podcast episodes about her interactions with an older sister she refers to as “Large Marge.”

Bunnie detailed the considerable support she extended to her sister before deciding to sever ties. This included a significant financial contribution of $10,000 for emergency surgery, assistance with furnishing a new apartment, and covering her sister’s rent on several occasions. Despite these gestures, the relationship deteriorated. Bunnie recounted a hurtful incident during one of her birthdays, where her sister’s comments struck a particularly sour note. “It was my birthday and she’s like, ‘Oh, I forgot on purpose,'” Bunnie recalled, expressing her frustration over the ongoing conflicts.

During the same conversation, Bunnie revealed her sister’s TikTok profile, which reportedly described her as “the villain” in Bunnie’s narrative. This prompted Bunnie to reaffirm her stance, stating, “Absolutely not. I do not want a relationship with her.” She reflected on the minimal interaction she has had with her older sister, indicating that despite her best efforts, she had only met her twice. “What more can I f—ing do for you to make you happy and make me love me?” she asked rhetorically.

Bunnie also touched upon her relationship with her younger sister, articulating that, although she harbours love for her, they too do not maintain regular contact. “I love her. No human in the world can make me laugh the way that she can,” she admitted, suggesting a bittersweet connection. However, she believes their bond has reached its natural conclusion. “I feel like our soul contracts were fulfilled,” she reflected, noting the lessons they have imparted on one another.

While Bunnie described her younger sister as “not easy to get along with,” she was careful to clarify that she does not see herself as a victim in this familial saga. “She’s very all over the place, and I just don’t have time for that inconsistency in my life,” she stated. Bunnie expressed a strong desire to avoid any strained interactions, saying, “The last thing I want to do is walk on eggshells around people.”

In her memoir, Bunnie again mentions her siblings, including one affectionately referenced as “Baby Sis.” She acknowledges a bond with her but elucidates that the connection remains fractured. “I’ll always be Baby Sis’ big sister, but you’ll notice she’s not too present in this book, and it’s for good reason: She’s just not really a part of my life,” Bunnie wrote. She hinted that the disintegration of their relationship may have been predetermined by their family dynamics from the very outset.

Through this public discourse, Bunnie Xo not only opens up about her personal experiences but also highlights a broader theme: the notion that family connections cannot solely be defined by blood relations. Her revelations underscore the complexity of familial bonds and the difficult choices that sometimes have to be made in the pursuit of emotional well-being.

Bunnie’s journey serves as a reminder that relationships, familial or otherwise, can be fraught with challenges that compel individuals to establish boundaries for self-protection and personal growth. As the conversation surrounding familial dynamics continues to evolve, Bunnie’s story adds an impactful narrative to the ongoing dialogue about the nature of family relationships in modern society.