Kristin Cavallari has recently shared her thoughts on love and relationships during a Q&A session on her podcast, *Let’s Be Honest*, offering fans insight into her past with ex-husband Jay Cutler. The couple, who separated in 2020 after nearly a decade together and three children, continue to reflect on their journey together, despite the challenges they faced.
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During an episode released on 31 March, followers sought Cavallari’s advice on various dating dilemmas, prompting her to delve into her own experiences. When a listener asked whether they should reignite a relationship following a broken engagement, Cavallari found the question particularly resonant. She acknowledged the significance of the situation, noting, “You ended it for a reason. Should you move on? Probably,” but also offered a more nuanced perspective.
Cavallari expressed her belief in the concept of spiritual connections. “If you do feel this crazy pull to this person,” she elaborated, “there’s a reason why you guys are supposed to be together, and maybe there are more lessons that you have to learn.” Her comments highlight a conflict between her logical reasoning and spiritual beliefs, a theme that she seems to wrestle with.
Reflecting on her own path, Cavallari stated, “I knew I was supposed to marry my ex-husband, and I was supposed to have three kids with him. That was my journey.” This admission underlines the complexity of her previous relationship with Cutler, suggesting that their bond exceeded mere circumstance.
Cavallari and Cutler first crossed paths in 2010, getting engaged the following year, but their engagement was short-lived. They reconciled later that same year, welcoming their first child, Camden, in 2012, before tying the knot in 2013. Their family subsequently grew with the births of two more children, Jaxon and Saylor. Despite this, the couple ultimately decided to part ways in 2020.
In her podcast, she ventured further into the idea of a “soul contract,” proposing that their shared experiences were predetermined. “I actually think we probably decided that before we came to Earth,” she mused, contemplating their initial breakup and reunion. This perspective reflects her belief that some relationships serve a greater purpose, even if they are fraught with difficulties.
Cavallari went on to acknowledge that, while some connections may not be healthy, they often teach invaluable lessons. “I think sometimes we know maybe someone is not good for us, but I think our soul knows there’s something we need to learn from this,” she noted. Such insights provide listeners with a framework for understanding their own relationships, even those that are especially challenging.
Her reflections on her marriage come after the reality series *Very Cavallari*, which documented her life with Cutler, came to an end with their divorce. In a prior interview, she revealed that their relationship had faced significant struggles leading up to their split, a fact that was often overlooked by those who viewed them as “couple goals.”
Cavallari candidly remarked on how she and Cutler had grown apart over the years, reminiscing on how young she was when they first met. “I met Jay when I was 23. I was a baby… we had so much love for each other, but we grew up,” she explained. Their journey together transformed their relationship in ways that ultimately led to the decision to divorce.
She concluded by stressing the importance of happiness in relationships, recognising that sometimes the hardest decisions are necessary. “When you work at something for so many years and nothing’s changing, you have to just make a decision. We all want to be happy,” she stated, leaving listeners with a hopeful perspective on navigating the complexities of love.
Cavallari’s reflections serve not just as personal anecdotes, but as guidance for those wrestling with their own romantic uncertainties, blending a spiritual lens with practical advice. Her journey, filled with both joy and heartache, offers a glimpse into the reality of love and relationships, challenges included.