Lisa Kudrow, renowned for her role in the iconic television series *Friends*, has revealed the enduring factors behind her strong marriage with advertising executive Michel Stern, as the couple recently celebrated three decades together. During an exclusive interview with *PEOPLE* at the premiere of the third season of *The Comeback*, Kudrow opened up about the relationship dynamics that have kept them united since their marriage in 1995.
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Kudrow met Stern in the late 1980s when he was dating her college roommate. Despite this unconventional introduction, their relationship blossomed, culminating in marriage just one year after the launch of *Friends*. The couple now shares a 27-year-old son, Julian Murray Stern, who is also joining the cast of *The Comeback*.
Reflecting on the secret to their long-lasting union, Kudrow stated, “I think that’s all there is to it: mutual respect for the most part. But definitely wanting to stay together and then relearning mutual respect, practising mutual respect, and listening.” This straightforward philosophy highlights the importance of communication and commitment, underscoring the couple’s efforts to navigate challenges together.
At the premiere, Kudrow walked the red carpet alongside both her husband and their son. The event served not only as a celebration of her work but also a testament to her family’s support. Julian’s involvement in the project appears to deepen their family bond, though Kudrow admitted to occasionally slipping into ‘mum-mode’ during their time on set. “I was kind of tired, and my brain was just a little fuzzy,” she explained. “I just walked over and climbed onto the couch right next to him and cuddled in. Everyone just went… and he went, ‘Hi, Mum,’ and everyone was looking.”
The affectionate moment, while perhaps surprising for onlookers, illustrates the close relationship Kudrow shares with her son even as they both engage in a professional setting. It seems that navigating the lines between family and work is something the actress embraces wholeheartedly.
Furthermore, Kudrow expressed gratitude for having met Stern prior to her rise to fame with *Friends*, attributing part of their stable relationship to this early connection. “I feel like the luckiest thing that happened to me was that I met and fell in love with the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with before *Friends*, right before,” Kudrow remarked, highlighting the significance of their pre-fame relationship amid the turbulent world of Hollywood.
As she discussed her marriage with Stern, Kudrow noted the couple’s understanding of what it takes to maintain a partnership. “When we decided to get married, we understood: We’re not promising to love each other forever… but we are promising to work on whatever problems come up,” she shared in a 2014 interview with *Glamour*. This pragmatic approach emphasises their commitment to evolving as individuals whilst remaining united.
Kudrow’s views on marriage extend beyond romantic ideals, stating, “I think people get in trouble when they assume they’re supposed to be one unit. [Marriage] is like being on a team. Each teammate is different, but you have the same goal.” This perspective offers insight into her successful navigation of both personal and professional challenges alongside Stern.
As Kudrow continues to flourish in her career, her bond with both Stern and Julian remains at the forefront of her priorities. The couple’s enduring relationship serves as a reminder of the importance of mutual respect, patience, and genuine connection. With 30 years behind them, Kudrow and Stern’s marriage stands as an inspiring example in the world of show business, where lasting unions can often seem elusive.
Whether through shared laughter on set or support during life’s challenges, Lisa Kudrow’s experiences illuminate a transformative approach to love and commitment. As she embarks on this new chapter with Julian as part of her professional life, one can only anticipate the growth and joy yet to come for this remarkable family.