Jessi Draper and her husband, Jordan Ngatikaura, have announced their separation after six years of marriage, a decision that has unfolded publicly following their appearances on the Hulu reality series, *The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives*. The couple tied the knot on 8 October 2020, but their relationship has been marred by controversy and allegations, culminating in Jordan’s formal divorce filing in March 2026.
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The couple’s struggles became a focal point during the second season of the show, when Jessi was accused of an affair with fellow cast member Marciano Brunette from *Vanderpump Villa*. This accusation gained traction after Brunette claimed in a season finale conversation that he and Jessi had not only met during a getaway but had also engaged in intimate encounters. While Jessi later admitted to sharing kisses with Brunette, she contested claims of a sexual relationship, leading to widespread speculation about her fidelity.
In the wake of the emotional turmoil stemming from these allegations, Jessi and Jordan initially entered a 90-day separation. During this period, Jessi publicly accused her husband of emotional abuse, while Jordan expressed regret for the harm he had caused her. Despite these issues, the couple attempted to reconcile throughout the subsequent seasons of the show, participating in therapy and working towards rebuilding their marriage.
In what seemed to be a turning point for their relationship, the couple celebrated their fifth wedding anniversary in October 2025. Jordan posted a heartfelt message on social media, praising Jessi as his “ride or die” and expressing gratitude for the journey they had shared. The couple, who also raised three children together, appeared hopeful at that time, but behind the scenes, challenges were still brewing.
Jordan, who works as a manager at a solar energy company, has also embraced social media, creating content through a platform dubbed ‘DadTok’. This trend, which features fathers sharing humorous moments and advice about parenting, has added another layer to the couple’s public persona. Jessi had previously described her husband’s foray into this digital space as a testament to their shared journey.
Before marrying Jordan, Jessi was previously wed, and she has a complex family life that includes children from both her prior relationship and her marriage to Jordan. Their joint family includes their son, Jagger Zayn, who faced health challenges shortly after birth, and a daughter named Jovi, whom they welcomed in January 2023. Throughout their marriage, both Jessi and Jordan have emphasised the importance of their children, often highlighting them in social media posts and public statements.
As tensions began to escalate during the filming of the most recent seasons of *The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives*, the couple sought therapy to address their issues. Jessi revealed in an interview that their therapy had been ongoing since their separation, aimed at helping both individuals develop a better understanding of themselves and their relationship dynamics.
However, all efforts at reconciliation ultimately culminated in Jordan’s decision to file for divorce. In a public statement, he remarked on the difficulty of the choice but underscored his commitment to prioritising the well-being of their children through the transition. “This has not been an easy decision and it comes with a heavy heart,” he stated. “While our paths are now moving in different directions, my priority remains my children and ensuring they feel loved, supported, and protected through this transition.”
As the couple embarks on this new chapter separately, fans and followers of the show will be watching closely to see how this significant change impacts them and their family dynamics.