Dylan Dreyer, co-host of NBC’s “Today” show, has officially filed for divorce from her husband, Brian Fichera, after 12 years of marriage. The announcement comes more than eight months after Dreyer revealed their separation in July, claiming the decision had been made “a few months” prior to that public disclosure.
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Dreyer, 44, confirmed her divorce filing on March 10, which was later reported by PEOPLE. The couple shares three sons: Calvin, Oliver, and Russell. This significant step comes after a lengthy marriage, during which Dreyer frequently opened up about the joys and challenges of family life on social media.
In her Instagram post from July, Dreyer expressed gratitude for the support she has received throughout her family journey. “For many years, I have shared my family with you all—the highs and lows, the ups and downs, and all of the blessings and beautiful memories in between,” she noted. She then shared the news of her separation, emphasising that “most importantly, we will continue to co-parent our three wonderful boys together with nothing but love and respect for one another”.
A source close to the couple maintained that, despite their split, Dreyer and Fichera have remained the best of friends. Their commitment to co-parenting has been underscored as they prioritise the well-being of their children above all else.
While guest hosting on “Today with Jenna & Friends” in November, Dreyer touched upon her separation and the complexities surrounding it. Responding to inquiries about her relationship status, she acknowledged the public’s curiosity and thanked them for their opinions while providing insight into her situation. “Everybody has their reasons for what leads to a separation or divorce,” she said thoughtfully.
Dreyer further elaborated that there were issues within the marriage that could not be resolved. This realisation led to redefining their relationship. “We are no longer husband and wife, and all those things that were broken, I don’t hold them against you because we’ve accepted they’re broken,” she explained. This perspective, she believed, paves the way for a more amicable friendship moving forward.
Dreyer’s approach to their altered dynamic is not only practical but also compassionate. She mentioned that she now finds herself able to extend more grace toward Fichera, akin to how one treats a friend rather than a spouse. “I can be a better friend than a wife,” she stated, reinforcing her commitment to maintaining a positive relationship for the sake of their children.
During discussions about their change in family structure, Dreyer involved her eldest son, Calvin, in understanding the concept of family. “I asked Calvin. I said, ‘What do you think a family is?’ And he said, ‘Well, it’s a group of people that love each other,’” she recalled. She reassured him that regardless of their title, the family’s love remains intact, stating, “That’s what we are. And we will always be that for you.”
As Dreyer navigates this new chapter in her life, she continues to share her experiences publicly, reminding audiences of the importance of love, respect, and open communication in family dynamics. While the end of a marriage can often be seen as a failure, Dreyer’s perspective is a testament to the fact that families can adapt and thrive in new configurations. Through this transitional time, she remains focused on co-parenting with Fichera and creating a loving environment for their children.
The journey ahead will likely come with its challenges, but for Dylan Dreyer and Brian Fichera, the commitment to their sons and their friendship stands as a strong foundation as they move forward.