Tate Paul, the ex-husband of former TikTok influencer Taylor Frankie Paul, appears to have turned a new chapter in his life following their highly publicised split. Since the “soft-swinging” controversy that led to their divorce in 2022, Tate has reportedly remarried and welcomed a third child with his new partner, Bailey Paul.
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Taylor, who previously gained fame as a Mormon influencer through her family-oriented content, married Tate in 2016. They welcomed their first child, Indy, in 2017, followed by a son, Ocean, in 2020. However, their marriage took a dramatic turn less than two years later, when Taylor announced their separation during an emotional TikTok Live session. She revealed that their decision to divorce stemmed partly from issues related to their arrangement surrounding “soft-swinging”, which allowed them to explore intimacy with other people within set limitations.
The term “soft-swinging” refers to a consensual agreement between partners to engage in sexual activities with others, provided they do not go all the way. In the livestream, Taylor confessed to stepping outside of this boundary, revealing that she had developed feelings for one of the men involved in their arrangement. This revelation not only shocked their followers but also played a significant role in the unraveling of their marriage.
Despite the tumultuous end to their relationship, Tate has largely maintained a low profile. While Taylor continued to draw attention as a reality star, featuring in the Hulu series *The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives* and taking on the leading role in the upcoming season of *The Bachelorette*, Tate has kept his personal life away from the public spotlight. He has been known to share music remixes and glimpses of his life on social media, subtly hinting at his new beginning.
As reported, Tate has recently embraced married life again. In a September 2024 interview, Taylor mentioned that Tate was doing well and had become engaged to Bailey Paul, née Roberts. They have since officially tied the knot, with Bailey adopting Tate’s surname on social media. As an esthetician specialising in lash lifts, brows, and waxing, she appears to have settled well into her new role as Tate’s wife.
The couple has also welcomed a new addition to their family. During her pregnancy, Tate shared on an Instagram post—now deleted—that their child was expected to be a girl, due in October 2023. Following the birth, he expressed heartfelt sentiments to Bailey on Mother’s Day, praising her as an extraordinary mother and partner, indicating that their relationship has thrived since their marriage.
In an encouraging turn of events, it seems Tate and Taylor have successfully navigated the complexities of their shared parental responsibilities. Taylor revealed that Tate has formed a friendship with her current partner, Dakota Mortensen, describing them as “buddies.” This harmonious relationship extends to Taylor’s bond with Tate’s fiancée, suggesting a level of collaboration and understanding among them all.
In her reflections, Taylor noted the significant role Tate continues to play in her life and the lives of their children. Acknowledging the importance of their co-parenting arrangement, she affirmed, “Tate will always be an important figure in their lives and mine.” This comment not only highlights the maturity of their co-parenting efforts but also the resilience they are building in a post-divorce scenario, benefiting their children amid the chaos of their public lives.
As Tate moves forward with his new family, it appears he is finding joy in his fresh beginnings, while also maintaining a connection with his past. The unfolding of their stories serves as a reminder of the complexities and challenges of relationships in the public eye, revealing that even amidst scandals and separations, there lies an opportunity for growth and new beginnings.