As the classic film *Stand By Me* marks its 40th anniversary, its stars Jerry O’Connell, Wil Wheaton, and Corey Feldman are taking a nostalgic journey through the impact of their late co-star, River Phoenix. The three actors are currently on a nationwide tour, screening the film and sharing their experiences of working alongside Phoenix, who tragically passed away in 1993 at the young age of 23.
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In a conversation with PEOPLE, the actors reflected on not only their memories of Phoenix but also the bond they shared during the making of the film. Wil Wheaton expressed his admiration for Phoenix, describing him as a “unique and talented actor” who provided a sense of cohesion among the group. “He held us together in a way that I still don’t understand,” he said, noting that each of them leaned on Phoenix for different reasons during their formative years.
Wheaton shared poignant memories of Phoenix, remarking that he often seemed wise beyond his years. However, he later learned of the considerable struggles Phoenix faced throughout his childhood, which added layers to his persona. Despite the pressures, Wheaton cherished their experiences together, stating, “We were just kids. It’s an unspeakable tragedy that we lost him so young.”

Corey Feldman echoed Wheaton’s sentiments, highlighting the similarities between the actors and their characters in the film. He noted that each of them embodied aspects of their roles, with Phoenix serving as the “pillar” of their ensemble. “River was the serious one,” Feldman reflected. “He was the glue that held us all together.” This bond, he believes, formed a unique connection that continues to resonate during their reunion tours.
Feldman and Phoenix’s friendship was solidified through their childhood experiences in the audition circuit. They shared a camaraderie that made their casting in *Stand By Me* particularly special. Recalling their early days, Feldman remembered a turbulent flight to Hollywood that further cemented their friendship before they even began filming. “We were hanging onto each other like, ‘Oh my god. This could be it’,” he recounted. This shared moment became an integral part of their journey, setting the tone for their collaborative experience.

O’Connell described Phoenix as “the kindest kid” he had ever known, someone who welcomed everyone and radiated warmth. He reflected on their interactions, expressing a feeling of safety in Phoenix’s presence. “I would like to think that if he had survived, we’d still be friends,” O’Connell mused, conveying the depth of his admiration for Phoenix.
This tour holds particular significance for the actors, especially in light of recent tragic events. During a break in their screening schedule, they encountered the shocking news of the deaths of director Rob Reiner’s wife, Michele, and their son, Nick, being charged with murder. This tragedy struck a chord with O’Connell, Wheaton, and Feldman, who found solace in supporting each other during this difficult time. “It turns out that we really needed each other in those days,” Wheaton stated, appreciating the renewed connection among the trio.
With their tour, the actors aim to celebrate not just the film but also to honour the memory of both Phoenix and Reiner. “We have a duty to remind everybody who River was, who Rob was, what they meant,” O’Connell asserted. He emphasised the importance of their shared experiences, reinforcing how they have navigated both joy and sorrow together.
The remaining screenings of *Stand By Me* will be marked by a bittersweet blend of nostalgia and remembrance, as the actors celebrate not only the film’s legacy but also the enduring friendships forged in the process. As Feldman put it, while they share laughter and camaraderie, there is a heavy sense of loss that continues to accompany them.
Fans eager to relive the adventure can catch the film back in select UK theatres from March 27 to April 3. For more details on the screening or on the behind-the-scenes stories from this iconic movie, visit *standbymelive.com*.
