*Taylor Frankie Paul Navigates New Dating Life Ahead of Bachelorette Journey*
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Taylor Frankie Paul, the well-known MomTok creator, has sparked intrigue online as she ventures back into the dating scene ahead of her much-anticipated role as the new Bachelorette. At the age of 31, Paul recently invited a musician named Ben Lambert to join her in Utah, indicating her eagerness to explore her romantic options once again.
In the latest season of “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,” viewers witness Paul’s blossoming connection with Lambert. The pair reportedly first crossed paths after Paul commented on one of Lambert’s TikTok live sessions during which he showcased his musical talents. Paul expressed a swift attraction, sharing in a confessional that it was love at first sight. “I don’t know why I was just like, ‘crush, crush,’” she stated.

Following weeks of phone conversations and watching each other’s content online, the two met in person. Paul’s excitement was palpable as she shared a giggle-filled encounter with the musician. This meeting marked the second time the pair had spent time together; their first meeting was alluded to in a photo Paul subsequently deleted, leading fans to speculate that she was subtly introducing her new love interest.
During a recent appearance on the “Call Her Daddy” podcast, the conversation inevitably touched on the now-deleted photo. Paul stated, “I guess I didn’t think that one too much through. Are we official? No. I don’t know the guy. Nothing along the lines of a soft-launch.” This clarification came amidst growing intrigue regarding her current relationship status.

Reflecting on her dating history, Paul acknowledged the challenges of re-entering the dating pool following her recent split from Dakota Mortensen, with whom she shares a child. The couple’s relationship unfolded during the show’s narrative, ultimately ending in early 2025 after a few tumultuous years. Prior to her time with Mortensen, Paul was married to Tate Paul from 2016 to 2022 and has two children with him.
As she explores dating, Paul recognised that the timing of Lambert’s visit coincided with the airing of her podcast episode. While she reassured herself and Lambert that there’s no pressure, she remains cautiously optimistic. “I am keeping a guard up with Ben because I have a history of falling maybe a little too fast,” she explained. “I’m practicing getting out of my comfort zone, so I don’t really see an issue.”
The dynamics of her friends’ concerns become evident when they inquire about her budding relationship with Lambert. Upon their arrival, they ask how he feels about getting to know someone who is about to embark on the Bachelorette journey. Lambert’s response was measured, expressing support for her prospects: “If she finds someone who she’s happier with, then that’s good.”
Despite her friends’ worries that her closeness with Lambert could sabotage her experience on the show, Paul assured them that her intentions were genuine. One of her friends, Mikayla, expressed concern about the potential impact on Paul’s Bachelorette experience, suggesting that the relationship might complicate her journey. However, Paul appears unfazed, acknowledging that her love life tends to be intriguing, if not a bit chaotic.
In a playful act to simulate a rose ceremony, Paul presented Lambert with what she termed her “first impression rose.” “I chose to give you my first impression rose because you felt like home,” she stated, highlighting their chemistry.
Paul has acknowledged the mixed opinions regarding her approach to dating at this stage in her life. “I know MomTok thinks the whole Ben situation is complicated before The Bachelorette. But I see this as a step towards opening up to dating,” she shared. Her focus seems to be on enjoying this new phase rather than rushing into anything serious.
One of her friends, Miranda, expressed optimism for Paul’s upcoming role. “We’re all just hoping that she can go and represent herself in the best way, to find that real and genuine, authentic love,” she stated, underscoring the significance of Paul’s journey as both a personal venture and a representation of MomTok.
As the drama unfolds in the latest season of “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,” audiences can catch a glimpse of Paul’s journey as she navigates the complexities of dating and friendship. Season Four is currently streaming on Hulu and Disney+, promising to deliver more insights into Paul’s life and decisions.
