Scott Speedman, star of the new ABC series ‘R.J. Decker’, has been engaged to Lindsay Rae Hoffman since June 2023, marking a significant milestone in their relationship. The couple’s engagement was publicly announced on social media, with Hoffman sharing a heartfelt post featuring her new diamond ring. Their family expanded with the birth of their second child, son Indy Roy Speedman, in September 2024; the couple previously welcomed their daughter, Pfeiffer Lucia Speedman, in October 2021.
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‘R.J. Decker’ premiered on March 3 and features Speedman as the titular character, a disgraced newspaper photographer turned private investigator who attempts to rebuild his life after prison. The show intricately explores the complications of merging personal and professional relationships, particularly through Decker’s interactions with his ex-wife and her new partner.

Bevin Bru, who portrays Melody “Mel” Abreu, the police detective and Decker’s ex-wife’s spouse, reflects on the unique dynamics her character introduces to the show. In a previous interview with PEOPLE, Bru noted the initial tension between her character and Decker but highlighted a subsequent development of mutual respect, describing their relationship as teasing yet supportive. “I find it interesting because I don’t think I’ve seen this dynamic played out often on screen,” she stated.

While Speedman’s character deals with a complicated marital history, the actor’s off-screen life with Hoffman is comparatively straightforward and loving. Their relationship has flourished since they began dating around 2017 and now includes the joys and challenges of parenthood.
In a broader exploration of the cast’s relationships, Bevin Bru is reportedly in a romance with fellow actor James Riseborough. Their relationship has garnered public attention, with both actors sharing affectionate messages on social media. Riseborough recently posted a series of photos reflecting on the past year, to which Bru responded warmly, signalling a relationship built on mutual admiration.
Another cast member, Jaina Lee Ortiz, known for her role as Emilia “Emi” Ochoa, maintains a more private approach to her life away from the cameras. Previously linked to her ‘Station 19’ co-star Jay Hayden, Ortiz has often employed a coy attitude about their relationship, enjoying the speculation that comes with it. She has remarked that she appreciates the excitement this ambiguity brings.
Kevin Rankin, who plays Aloysius “Wish” Aiken, shares a happy family life with his wife, Jill Farley. The two met while co-starring in the NBC drama ‘Trauma’ between 2009 and 2010. The couple has two children and resides in Austin, Texas, where they balance their family life with their professional commitments.
Adelaide Clemens, featured as R.J.’s ex-wife Catherine Delacroix, has taken a step back when it comes to publicly sharing details of her relationships. While she keeps her dating life private, Clemens has previously mentioned an encounter with acclaimed actor Leonardo DiCaprio, recounting the thrilling experience of seeing him on a film set, a moment she described as overwhelming.
As ‘R.J. Decker’ continues to explore the blend of personal and professional lives, the cast’s real-life relationships add an intriguing layer to the narrative. The show not only mirrors their experiences but also delves into the complexities of love, divorce, and partnership within the high-stakes world of private investigation. The dynamics both on-screen and off suggest that relationships, regardless of their nature, are often filled with drama, humour, and an enduring spirit of resilience.
The series has quickly garnered attention for its unique themes and character interactions, and with the personal lives of the cast members intertwined around its compelling storylines, viewers have much to look forward to as the series develops. As Scott Speedman and Lindsay Rae Hoffman look ahead to their future together, the on-screen explorations of relationships in ‘R.J. Decker’ will surely continue to captivate audiences.
