The Harvard-Westlake School, a prestigious preparatory institution in Los Angeles, is facing serious allegations following a civil lawsuit filed by Aidan Romain, an 18-year-old former water polo athlete. The lawsuit, submitted to the Superior Court of California, highlights Romain’s claims of severe harassment and sexual assault he reportedly endured from three teammates between August 2022 and February 2024.
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In his complaint, Romain accuses his fellow players, primarily Lucca Van der Woude, of subjecting him to repeated sexual assaults, which occurred both on school grounds and in the swimming pool. Romain asserts that the alleged abuse occurred in the presence of school staff, leading to serious allegations regarding the institution’s failure to protect him. He reports that upon learning of the first incident, he promptly notified school officials, yet claims no action was taken to address the situation.

According to the lawsuit, Romain was met with indifference from the school’s administration, which he argues had a legal obligation to act. Instead of taking necessary precautions, the administration reportedly ignored his complaints and instead retaliated against him for speaking out. This apparent disregard for his welfare raises questions about the practices and responsibilities of educational institutions regarding student safety.
In addition to the claims of sexual misconduct, Romain alleges that he was subjected to racist verbal abuse by Van der Woude and teammate Connor Kim. He recounts being confronted with racial slurs and subjected to humiliating acts that he describes as reminiscent of slavery during physical training sessions. This distressing claim further compounds the serious nature of the allegations lodged against the school and individuals involved.
The complaint highlights a troubling pattern of behaviour, indicating that the school allegedly failed to report the incidents to the appropriate authorities, including the police and the Department of Child and Family Services, both of which are crucial in cases of suspected child abuse. Furthermore, Romain maintains that his parents were not informed of the abuses he suffered within the confines of the school community, which raises issues concerning the institution’s duty of care to its students and their families.
Legal representation for Van der Woude has publicly denied all allegations, asserting that he “categorically and unequivocally denies” the claims made against him. His attorney expressed confidence that the truth will be determined through due legal processes, but no additional comments were made as the case is still pending.
In a recent interview, Romain expressed the struggles he faced throughout his ordeal, stating that he believed he needed to tolerate the abuse in order to pursue his aspirations of becoming an Olympic athlete and to compete at a collegiate level. The pressure to excel in water polo at Harvard-Westlake, a school renowned for its sports programmes, left Romain feeling trapped in a painful cycle of abuse.
The allegations have significantly impacted Romain’s family as well, with his father revealing that the emotional toll has prevented them from finding peace or rest since the troubling incidents came to light in late 2023. The family is now seeking damages from the school for the lasting harm Romain is expected to endure as a consequence of the alleged abuse.
As this case unfolds, it sheds light on crucial conversations about student safety and the responsibilities of educational institutions in safeguarding their students. The outcome remains to be seen as the legal process progresses, but the allegations raise pressing questions about the adequacy of responses to reports of misconduct and the protection of vulnerable individuals within such environments.
The story highlights the importance of support for victims of sexual abuse. Resources for those affected, including the Crisis Text Line, are readily available for those in need of assistance and guidance through such distressing experiences.
