**Shanna Moakler Expresses Frustration Over Co-Parenting with Kourtney Kardashian**
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In a recent episode of the podcast When Reality Hits, former reality television star Shanna Moakler opened up about her complex co-parenting dynamic with Kourtney Kardashian, highlighting her concerns regarding mutual respect and communication. Moakler, who shares two children—Alabama, 20, and Landon, 22—with musician Travis Barker, spoke candidly about the issues she believes have arisen since Barker’s marriage to Kardashian in 2022.
Moakler, 50, stated that she has never had a direct conversation with Kardashian, 46, about co-parenting, nor has there been any dialogue surrounding Kardashian’s role in the lives of her children. “I don’t think those women have those conversations with anybody,” she remarked, alluding to Kardashian and her renowned family. She expressed that at times, she felt the nature of their interactions crossed personal boundaries.

Reflecting on her feelings, Moakler shared, “At one point in time, I felt it wasn’t respectful.” She indicated that observing Kardashian’s parenting style raised concerns for her. “If I had your kids, I wouldn’t be doing some of the things you’re doing with my kids,” she asserted, underlining her discomfort with certain behaviours she perceived as crossing the line.
Despite her feelings, Moakler acknowledged that the current situation is somewhat settled, expressing, “It is what it is. It’s happened, and I think we’ve all moved forward from it now.” This reflects a certain acceptance, despite the tensions that have so far marked their co-parenting relationship.
While Moakler hinted that she wouldn’t completely dismiss the idea of discussing their co-parenting preferences with Kardashian, she was quick to clarify her stance. “I don’t talk to that family, I don’t like that family,” she stated frankly. However, she recognised the reality of their intertwined lives, explaining that Kardashian is now an established part of her children’s family. “He married into that family, that is their stepmother,” she observed, referring to the new family dynamics in play.

Kardashian is not only a stepmother to Moakler’s children; she also has three kids of her own—Mason, 16, Penelope, 13, and Reign, 11—whom she shares with her ex-partner Scott Disick. This further complicates the relationships and interactions between the various parties involved.
Moakler took a moment to reflect on her feelings towards the Kardashian family, recognising her children’s happiness as the priority. “I could harbour a lot of animosity and anger,” she admitted, “but as long as my kids are being treated well, then that’s all I can be grateful for.” She noted the pervasive influence of the Kardashian brand, saying, “I try not to harbour too much attention on it. I mean, we can’t really avoid it. They’re everywhere.”
In a separate discussion, Moakler has sought to clarify misconceptions about her parenting, responding to accusations that she is a “deadbeat mum”. She firmly stated that she has always maintained shared custody of her children with Barker. “I think people think I was angry,” she noted, suggesting that her directness is sometimes misinterpreted as hostility.
Moakler’s candidness invites reflection on the unique challenges faced by co-parents, particularly those in the public eye. “I’m not angry,” she reiterated, explaining her straightforward communication style. “I can be very direct sometimes, and I think some people take that as anger where I’m just being very real.”
This ongoing discussion serves as a reminder of the complexities of modern parenting arrangements, particularly within the realm of celebrity. As Moakler navigates her relationship with Kardashian and the larger Kardashian-Jenner clan, her focus remains on her children’s well-being—an aspect she deems paramount despite any interpersonal disagreements.
The dynamics of co-parenting are often intricate and multifaceted, and Moakler’s openness provides a glimpse into the challenges and realities many families face today. As the situation continues to evolve, it remains to be seen how both families will manage their relationships for the sake of the children involved.
As of now, representatives for Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker have not responded to requests for comment regarding Moakler’s statements.
