Courtney Stodden Shares Touching Story of How Husband Jared Safier Rescued Her from Dark Times
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Courtney Stodden, the talented singer and reality TV star, recently spoke exclusively to PEOPLE about how her husband, film producer Jared Safier, played a vital role in saving her from a suicide attempt. Stodden, known for her new song “Choke,” which has just been released, exchanged vows with Safier in December. This union came after a tumultuous period where she made headlines for discarding an engagement ring from her former fiancé Chris Sheng. Stodden’s fame skyrocketed when she married her ex-husband, Doug Hutchinson, as a teenager.
Many have mispronounced Safier’s name as “Savior” in conversations with Stodden, a slip-up that she finds quite ironic. She shared with PEOPLE, “He did save me from trying to un-alive myself. This was during the early stages of our relationship, and in that moment, I looked at him and thought, ‘Maybe this is my husband, if he’s saving me from such dark moments.'” Stodden recalls feeling safe with Safier then and continues to feel that sense of security today. She expressed, “He’s always there, no matter what, which feels strange to me because I’m accustomed to gaslighting.”
As with any relationship, Stodden acknowledges the challenges they have faced. She admitted, “It hasn’t all been smooth sailing, believe me. It’s been tough for both of us. We did rush into marriage. I’m trying my best.” Despite the hurdles, Stodden remains optimistic, stating, “I felt safe and fell in love with him, so we will see how it goes. If this doesn’t work out, I might just swear off relationships altogether.”
In a candid revelation, Stodden shared the backstory of her latest single, “Choke,” a dance-pop track with a powerful message against toxic relationships. Reflecting on her personal experiences, she explained, “I’ve learnt a lot about toxic relationships. One night, as I sat by the fire writing in my diary, I penned, ‘I hope your abuser chokes.'” The song, for Stodden, stems from a deep emotional place, with a defiant attitude towards those who cannot handle her authenticity.
The release of “Choke” follows the airing of the Lifetime biopic on Stodden’s life and controversial marriage to Doug Hutchinson, titled “I Was a Child Bride: The Courtney Stodden Story.” The network ranked the biopic as its top movie of 2025, adding to Stodden’s whirlwind of experiences. She reflected, “I thought I wouldn’t make it to 27, so having a biopic at 31 is surreal. I’ve been living at a fast pace. It’s been quite a journey.”
For individuals grappling with mental health issues, emotional distress, or in need of someone to talk to, the Lifeline hotline – 988 – offers around-the-clock support through calls, texts, and online chats. Stodden’s story is a poignant reminder of the power of love and support in overcoming personal struggles, offering hope to those facing similar challenges.
Stodden’s journey serves as an inspiration, shedding light on the importance of compassion, understanding, and resilience in navigating life’s complexities. Her openness about her struggles and triumphs reinforces the message that reaching out for help and embracing love can truly make a difference in one’s life journey.