Seven years after the tragic suicide of renowned designer Kate Spade, her closest friend, Elyce Arons, has finally decided to share their untold story. The exclusive excerpt of their friendship revealed in the memoir “We Just Might Make It After All” gives insights into the deep bond they shared over the years.
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Elyce Arons and Kate Spade, fondly known as Katy, met as college freshmen and formed an inseparable friendship that spanned 37 years. Through their journey of creating a successful handbag line that captured the hearts of many, they stood by each other as pillars of support and companionship. The memoir sheds light on the private struggles Kate Spade faced, showcasing her sensitive nature and inner battles that many were unaware of.

Reflecting on the profound loss of her dear friend, Arons described the pain as a permanent ache that she carries with her. Visiting Kate’s apartment after her passing, Arons was confronted with the stark reality of her absence. The once vibrant space now felt dim and disheveled, a stark contrast to the tidy haven she had known. Memories flooded back as Arons grappled with the harsh truth of Kate’s departure.
Their journey began in 1981 when Elyce and Katy crossed paths at the University of Kansas. From there, their adventures led them to Arizona State University, where Katy met her future husband, Andy Spade. The trio embarked on a creative journey that culminated in the birth of the iconic handbag brand ‘Kate Spade.’ Despite their success and accolades, Kate remained humble and reserved, a trait that endeared her to many.
As the brand soared to new heights and garnered acclaim, the friends found themselves navigating the complexities of fame and fortune. Kate’s unwavering commitment to the brand and her creative vision propelled them forward, leading to collaborations and ventures that resonated with audiences worldwide. However, the pressures of the industry took a toll on Kate, leaving her feeling overwhelmed and abandoned by those closest to her.
In 2006, as they celebrated their accomplishments in Cabo San Lucas, Kate and Elyce looked towards the future with optimism and shared dreams of continued collaboration. Their bond transcended professional success, delving into the realm of true friendship and unwavering support. Despite the challenges they faced, they remained united in their pursuit of creativity and shared experiences.
Following Kate’s tragic passing in 2018, Elyce Arons grappled with overwhelming grief and unanswered questions. The void left by her dear friend serves as a poignant reminder of life’s fragility and the importance of treasuring those we hold dear. As she navigates the complexities of loss and healing, Elyce’s memoir stands as a tribute to the enduring power of friendship and the impact of Kate Spade’s legacy on those who knew and loved her.
The intimate portrayal of their friendship in “We Just Might Make It After All” offers readers a glimpse into the heart of a cherished bond that transcended time and circumstance. Elyce Arons’ poignant retelling of their story serves as a testament to the enduring spirit of Kate Spade and the profound impact she had on those fortunate enough to know her. The memoir is set to release on June 17, offering a poignant tribute to a friendship that withstood the test of time and continues to inspire others.
