In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, Sarper from the hit show ’90 Day Fiancé’ opened up about his struggles and mixed emotions after moving from Turkey to Los Angeles with his fiancée Shekinah. The reality star candidly shared that his “happiness level” since being in a serious relationship with Shekinah is “mostly a 1,” indicating a significant drop in his overall joy.
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Opening up about his life in America, Sarper revealed that he finds himself yearning for the peace he experienced in his hometown, describing himself as a “professional narcissist.” Despite Shekinah’s assertions that his previous life was chaotic, Sarper maintains that he had a sense of inner peace and a happiness level ranging from four to six before their relationship.
Reflecting on his past as a single man, Sarper admitted to having a body count of almost 3000 women and being a “serious relationship virgin” before meeting Shekinah. The challenges of adapting to a new country where he’s unable to work or have a bank account have added to the stress of their relationship, pushing his happiness level to fluctuate between 10 or 1, often leaning towards the latter.
As Sarper navigates the complexities of commitment and loyalty in his relationship with Shekinah, he expressed doubts about his decision to leave behind his independent and carefree life for love. Despite the struggles and occasional feelings of resentment, he acknowledged the profound impact Shekinah has had on him, transforming him from a “bad boy” to a more devoted partner.
Acknowledging the weight of responsibility that comes with a serious relationship, Shekinah encouraged Sarper to embrace the challenges and growth opportunities it presents. Despite the ups and downs they face together, the couple remains committed to each other, with Sarper acknowledging that his happiness with Shekinah defies logic at times.
As they continue to navigate their relationship on ’90 Day Fiancé,’ the couple’s raw and honest portrayal of their struggles serves as a testament to the complexities of love and commitment. Viewers are left to ponder the sacrifices and transformations that come with leaving behind the familiar for the promise of a future with a loved one.
With emotions running high and uncertainties looming, Sarper and Shekinah’s journey on the show offers a glimpse into the trials and tribulations of cross-cultural relationships. As they grapple with the challenges of adjusting to a new life together, their story resonates with audiences who appreciate the authenticity and vulnerability they bring to the screen.
Tune in to ’90 Day Fiancé’ on Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC to witness the continuing saga of Sarper and Shekinah’s relationship as they navigate the highs and lows of love, commitment, and cultural differences.